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question (it might be silly idk pls don’t be mean im genuinely curious & still learning abt myself) i recently found out im bi. does that mean ive always been bi and didnt know or does that mean ive been straight and someone came along who made me bi
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Anonymous 1w

Have you ever wondered what the tallest mountain before Mount Everest was? it’s a trick question Mount Everest was still the tallest mountain we just hadn’t discovered it yet.

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Anonymous 1w

really depends on the person!! like i view my sexuality as something i “became” after going through a few different ones, rather than something i always was. some people view themselves as always having been that way. the important thing to remember is it doesnt matter so much what label you were as it does what label makes you happy now :))

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Anonymous 1w

like basically did me being bi develop or has it always been a thing or is it dependent on the person/situation?

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Anonymous 1w

you’ve been bi & didn’t know until now. sexuality isn’t a choice to make

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Anonymous 1w

it depends! this also comes up a lot in trans spaces. for ex, whether someone feels like “i was always a boy but people thought i was a girl and now i can transition” or “i used to be a girl but now i can transition and be a boy.” neither is more correct than the other, it’s just how you want to construct your self-narrative and engage in self-understanding.

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