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652 upvotes, 53 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+.

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Anonymous 6d

“BuT yOu WeRe SoCiAlIsEd As A mAn” No, I wasn’t socialised at all, you brick shit-house. I’m in my late 20s now and still fucking catching up to my peers.

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Anonymous 6d

No literally. It was one of the hardest things to ever go through. Constantly having to “man up”, being harassed and treated as a weak man for being fem, it was all terrible

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Anonymous 6d

This is true but also ironic because the poster (gin) is transphobic herself

Anonymous 6d

no fr and trans women have to deal with misogyny and the plights of womanhood too. anyone who's ever experienced being a girl or woman gets put thru immense fucking trauma (said as a transmasc person) and on top of that tgirls had to deal with all that bs too, its actually insane. tgirls truly are our strongest warriors 🦭🦭

Anonymous 6d

A bunch of enby erasure and shitting on trans men.

Anonymous 5d

Sounds like gin is a shitty person for other things she’s said but I’m so glad these comments clarified what she meant in this one 💀 I fully took it to mean “because trans women had a male upbringing, that is traumatic for other women to know and they should fear this person like they fear other men” Which I understand now is the take she was arguing against but I did see the posts of her being icky first

Anonymous 6d

we all got patriarchy related trauma just different flavors. we gotta stop attacking each other and start attacking. Yknow. The system that traumatizes us.

Anonymous 5d

Do you think you can’t dislike someone for something that they’re personally upset about?

Anonymous 6d

Yeah can we not with this bs. Trans women who transitioned late in life and especially those that don’t pass as women do not and have not experienced misogyny in the way that cis women do. It’s not comparable vice versa either. Idk why ppl feel the need to include themselves in trauma that does not impact them.

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Anonymous

#1 6d

…fuck you’re absolutely right

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Anonymous

#4 6d

Seriously, I don’t know how many times I’ve been told to “man up”, and I’m a cis male!

Anonymous

#5 6d

For me the worst was growing up closeted and having my hair cut against my will because it was “too girly”. Just buzzed all off

Anonymous

#4 6d

I would sob and cry myself to sleep every time I was forced to cut my hair it was traumatizing

Anonymous

#3 6d

Why am I being downvoted? She’s posted some gross transphobic stuff about “afab” people

Anonymous

OP 6d

Oh same here. To this day I don’t like people touching my hair, like it’s a genuine trauma response There’s maybe two people in the world I’m ok with cutting it in small amounts and even then I have to take breaks or else I freak tf out

Anonymous

#3 6d

yeah i saw some of that shit by them it’s disgusting

Anonymous

#3 6d

What kind of stuff has she said? I don’t have a twitter account

Anonymous

#4 6d

“Man up” the insult here is being compared to a woman, btw. You still have experienced and benefited from male privilege if you were raised as a male.

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Anonymous

#8 6d

trans med shit mainly from what ive seen

Anonymous 6d

yeah i haven’t seen anything other than screenshots and don’t know their pronouns. what’s your problem?

Anonymous

#9 6d

oh ew transphobia and false statements

Anonymous

#9 6d

No one… is saying trans women’s experience of misogyny is the same as cis women’s? This is just about trauma?

Anonymous

#8 6d

they’re just reaching for an excuse to hate on trans people

Anonymous

#9 6d

They do actually experience misogyny. Your bullshit comment is part of that!

Anonymous

#9 6d

Maybe fuck off and don’t tell me what my experiences in my life have and have not been.

Anonymous

#1 6d

Call me transphobic, Irdgaf. You’re entitled to your opinions. Being a trans woman is a different experience from being a cis woman. That’s not transphobia, that’s a factual statement.

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Anonymous

#9 6d

Like you do realize a trans woman (a woman) getting told that being a woman is something to be ashamed of or mocked is misogyny, right?

Anonymous

#9 6d

Imagine being upset about the fact that misogyny harms all women instead of the fact that misogyny happens at all. That’s just wild.

Anonymous

#1 6d

It’s almost like #9 doesn’t care about the actual impact of misogyny and instead is just desperately searching for ways to invalidate the feelings of trans people

Anonymous

#9 6d

"change your hearts or d.." - david lynch 🫶🫶

Anonymous

#9 6d

Are you the person who made that post complaining about trans women who talk about how they’ve faced different oppression and discrimination than cis women?

Anonymous

#1 6d

This one too

Anonymous

#3 6d

And this shit…

Anonymous

#9 6d

Trans women do in fact face misogyny. They also face horrible oppression and discrimination for both being trans and women. Stop trying to compare that to cis women’s experiences with misogyny…

Anonymous

#9 6d

unfriendly reminder that TERFS get curbstomped here

Anonymous

#9 6d

Awe, look at you, still pissed that misogyny harms more than just cis women instead of the fact that it fucking harms people at all.

Anonymous

#3 6d

something something broken clock

Anonymous

#4 6d

As in the Twitter user is right about trans women having trauma from a male upbringing, not the hatred towards transmascs lol, that’s bad

Anonymous

#9 6d

I mean yeah it’s a different experience but that doesn’t mean they don’t still experience misogyny??

Anonymous 6d

dude relax I don’t think #6 was misgendering her intentionally they didn’t know

Anonymous

#12 6d

crazy how they blocked me instead of just saying what the person pronouns are

Anonymous

#6 6d

they’re probably just chronically online

Anonymous

#14 5d

huh

Anonymous

#11 5d

Lots of sympathy for having to undergo the trauma of being raised male if you’re a girl, but it’s ridiculous to act like that exempts trans women from being criticized for acting poorly as a result of their social conditioning as boys

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Anonymous

#14 5d

Like, sorry you had to be forced to act masculine, but I don’t think that makes it any less repulsive that you think rape jokes are funny and shame women for their appearance.

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Anonymous

#14 5d

where the fuck are they saying that? dont see that thry think those jokes are funny or shame women anywhere in here

Anonymous

#14 5d

Why are you assuming that being raised as the wrong gender makes trans women think rape jokes are funny or makes them shame other women? More often than not, I’ve seen trans women who were forced to act masculine, have a strong dislike of that traditionally toxic masculine behavior after being forced to endure it against their will

Anonymous

#3 5d

Because #14 is pushing the “tHeY’rE mEn” bullshit without outright saying it.

Anonymous

#14 5d

Ah yes, the mass epidemic of trans women making rape jokes, definitely a thing that’s happening Hate it when trans women do that and make fun of women for their appearance. Cis women would never make fun of other women for their appearance. That never happens

Anonymous

#9 5d

…well believe it or not, your comment is an excellent example of misogyny. Nobody said it’s the same thing or impacts people the exact same way. Why do cis women get a monopoly on having experienced misogyny? It DOES impact trans women too. Misogyny and transphobia go hand in hand. We all want the same things. Equality, respect and compassion. Trans women would 100% be on your team and back you, yet you’re complaining about them speaking on the same issues you face? Make it make sense.

Anonymous

#6 5d

I know multiple trans women who think those jokes are funny and who have shamed me for being a hairy cis woman. I’m not saying ALL trans women are misogynistic

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Anonymous

#4 5d

Where did I say it was a mass epidemic? You’re the one making generalizations. I know lots of trans women who are great, but that doesn’t mean I don’t know trans women who suck in ways that are the direct result of how they were raised due to gender norms.

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Anonymous

#14 4d

breaking: YY user finds out that anyone can be a bad person regardless of identity