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I like to be referred to as he/him so I classify myself as a trans man (FTM), but I don’t have body dysmorphia when my chest seems fuller or I wear a dress, I also enjoy makeup. Is this normal?
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Anonymous 5w

Yes! Gender is a spectrum. You do you, and don’t let anyone make you feel like you have to justify your masculinity ‼️

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Anonymous 5w

Finding gender EUPHORIA can be just as important as recognizing gender DYSPHORIA. Some trans people experience dysphoria while others don’t, it’s totally normal!

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Anonymous 5w

It’s absolutely normal! Some people claim that dysmorphia is required to be considered trans, but that’s just a form of gate keeping. It’s perfectly okay for a trans man to enjoy makeup and dresses, just like how it’s ok for a cis man to wear a dress or a cis woman to wear a suit. You know your identity better than anyone else

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah gender is weird like that

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Anonymous 5w

You’re still trans even if you don’t feel the same dysphorias as other people do

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Anonymous 5w

Think about it this way, if a cis man can enjoy wearing dresses and makeup and still be a man, why can’t you?? 😇

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah totally. I’ve been completely femme for a while but still use male pronouns

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Anonymous 5w

No

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Anonymous 5w

Ok trender

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

Booooooooo LOUD BUZZER NOISE

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

Literally shut up. Everyone already thinks transgender people shouldn’t exist don’t add fuel to the fire

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

Lamo I am actually trans, trenders actively fuel the fire

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

stop trying to be “one of the good ones”. You won’t be spared. People without dysphoria who express how they feel comfortable aren’t hurting anyone. The people attacking them are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

I’m not trying to be trendy or anything- I like he/him, feel viscerally uncomfortable with she/her, it’s been like this for years! I’ve always felt uncomfortable with who I was then when my brother (he’s also trans) kinda talked about everything I tried out different things. I feel so much more comfortable being called he/him and my chosen name, yeah i occasionally like dresses and makeup, no I don’t want to get surgeries, but I’m living life as me and I’m happy doing that<3

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you i appreciate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Yeah I feel so much happier just genuinely being me, I like what I’m called and how I am now even if some people don’t understand it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

hey OP it’s not worth engaging with someone like that. you do you and express yourself how you’re most comfortable, you don’t need anyone else’s approval

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I know a few people like that, saying dysmorphia is apart of it and I’ll be honest, I kinda went through that and sometimes even today I go through that- I mainly went through it years ago when I first started out but now I just feel…me if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Gender really do be weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Thank you 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

Honestly you’re so right

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

Lmao yeah booooo shame the nonbelieverrrrr

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 5w

Thank you🫶 I was just kinda trying to give more context, if they still wanna be like that I’ll let them be miserable while I’m happy being me

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

Yeah I am “actually” trans too. I have fucking crippling gender dysphoria and I had to cut off my family because I thought I was going to off myself. Please get off 4chan.

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