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erm actually firm lover of she/her gays, he/him lesbians, they/them straights + everyone else with a nuanced relationship with their identity here 🙋 y’all are cooler than the people stuck on this whole debate.
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Anonymous 21w

Also thank you for this! I’ve never understood he/him lesbians (have supported but just couldn’t figure it out) and the they/them straights for some reason helped me figure it out lol

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Anonymous 21w

That dosent make any sense. I’m a psychology student. You cant be a lesbian( a woman who loves a woman) and be a he/him which would signify a male identity. I’m gay and yall make the whole lgbt community look stupid and uneducated

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Lesbian is non-man who loves non-man soooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

That’s an opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

So that’s actually just correct. Just step into LSA and they can confirm too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

No it’s not. But ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

So I’m a lesbian and it is but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

Ur entitled to ur wrong opinion but k

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

You’re just an idiot and refuse to educate yourself. Stay ignorant queen!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

Just say u don’t know anything about identity and you can stay ignorant too diva

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

It’s my identity?! Non binary people can be lesbians?!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Hey yappatron here. PBS major also! Rest assured once you take more classes on lgbtq psychology, history, politics, and how to approach other people’s perspectives with a nonjudgmental attitude, you’ll find 1) the community has been using these labels however they’ve wanted forever, especially intersex people 2) all this binary boxing is rebranded western colonial junk 3) there’s no reason every queer person needs to censor their thoughts just for the fear of making others look bad

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