Anonymous #2 2w

t4t attraction is real tbh. As a trans guy, I’m usually much more attracted to other trans guys. The OP is trans too. Some trans people just don’t find themselves attracted to cis people for whatever reason

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Anonymous #4 2w

i believe t4t refers to attraction built on shared experiences no? (correct me if not). the post is about whether they’re bi bc they’re only attracted to trans men not cis men but that would imply that trans men aren’t actually men which is where the confusion is.

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Anonymous #4 2w

For me at least it’s about the shared understanding. I’m more attracted to people that I have more in common with

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Anonymous #2 2w

Yes.. and I thought I was a lesbian but realised I think I like trans guys too. But not cis guys. So I’m asking can I be bi but just not like cis men

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Anonymous #2 2w

It was so late when I posted this I forgot to mention that I thought I’m a lesbian until now 😭 I’m realising I also think trans dudes are hot but not cis men

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Anonymous #1 2w

So I’m still a lesbian? Even though I like trans men

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Anonymous OP 2w

Becuase you said no this dosent make me bi

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Anonymous #5 2w

Tbh I think it’s more I’m attracted to a type of alternative guy where 99% of them are trans. Like dudes who dress alt with colorful hair and stuff

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Anonymous #5 2w

I also don’t think I could date cis people in general. It’s like asking me why I’m not attracted to cis women. I’m just not, I think part of it is the idea that they just don’t have any idea how my gender is experienced. I don’t trust cis people to get it

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Anonymous OP 2w

ok, with that context bisexual who dates exclusively t4t. however framing it as not being attracted to cis men/only attracted to trans men, rather than being attracted to men but only being interested in pursuing relationships with trans men, is really what people are pushing back on. the idea that trans men are visually distinguishable from cis men such that you could be attracted to just trans men and not cis men is what is being pushed back on.

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Anonymous #1 2w

I just have never met a cis man I’m interested in. There’s trans men I don’t think are hot too? I just haven’t met many cis men I think look good, vs the out trans guys who I think look great

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Anonymous OP 2w

I also think I’m aroace and it’s aesthetic attraction and I just think they’re cool, and the style I think is cool is just a style that many trans people have and not many cis people

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Anonymous OP 2w

I also may once again be mistaking jealousy for attraction because I went on pintrest to try and find out the type of guy I like and I’m like “yeah this guy with top surgery is so hot I wish I looked like that

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Anonymous OP 2w

I also may be gender fluid and gaybian because rn I’m a man and the idea of dating a woman or lesbian is so bad but two months ago I was a lesbian and would never think about dating a man

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Anonymous #6 2w

I also don’t date cis women

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Anonymous OP 2w

Okay, I was confused and thought this was about to go the I’m only attracted to pussy route for a second

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Anonymous #6 2w

I’m only attracted to not having sex :)

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’m glad you aren’t fetishing trans men bc it is something I see far too often

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