
pronouns ≠ gender, so you don’t have to identify as a man to use he/him pronouns; but also trans men have a long history of being included in the lesbian community, it’s only recently (within the last 10 or so years) that we’re excluding them. a trans man’s relationship with their sexuality and gender is their own, nobody else can decide it for them, and if they want to identify as a lesbian still it doesn’t actually hurt other lesbians. just like #5 said, a lesbian doesn’t have to date them +