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any recs for masc leaning wedding attire? i dont want just a suit, im agender (afab) so i like to play with gender norms; looking for a mixture of suit and fem, but wondering how i can pull it off any inspo pics or company recs are so so helpful!! #wlw
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Anonymous 5w

Go look up Zoya Biglary on TikTok and you’ll find her and her wife’s recent wedding. Personally I absolutely love what Zoya wore and can see myself in something like that. I also have struggled with what I’ll wear on my wedding day because I definitely don’t want to wear a dress and don’t want a full on suit either.

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Anonymous 5w

Very uncreative idea from a very uncreative Cis???????Het man coming in: suit vest on top, dress skirt on bottom?🤷‍♂️ idk, might look nice. Or maybe the other way around, suit bottom dress top? Or maybe some in between🤔 Damn it, i just said I was uncreative, why am I now invested in this 😭

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Anonymous 5w

okay i found some REALLY cool inspo here if anyone is looking for something similar to this… i looked up “angelic/gothic/ethereal suit men”

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Anonymous 5w

maybe switch outfits between the ceremony and reception! ex: wear a suit for one, and a dress for the other. you could also maybe wear a bustier with a suit, or see about wearing a matching blazer with a dress? androgynous wedding outfits are not as much my forte, so take these with a grain of salt ^^

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Anonymous 5w

I’ve seen people do sort of a dressier suit with like a cape? Either around the waist or shoulders. There are a couple queer wedding stylists on Instagram (can’t remember any!) that I remember sending my partner posts from

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Anonymous 5w

a cape

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Anonymous 5w

You know those pants that are made to look like maxi skirts, maybe a pantsuit with pants like that (or just a pantsuit if you don’t want the skirt look). The top can be shaped to look more like a vest so you would have a more masc silhouette on top.

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Anonymous 5w

Something androgynous and simple it is a wedding pls do not take attention away from the bride/groom and wedding party

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Anonymous 5w

OHHH WAIT you’re not the one getting married! i’m silly. i would say see about corset with a suit or blazer with a dress :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Omg I love Zoya

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

no no i am the one getting married!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

LOVE

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

i am the broom/gride

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

ur so real for that im leaning toward dress top suit bottom tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

hell yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Same!! I love how black cat-golden retriever her and Alix are!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

This just gave me an idea. What if it was like this? Might be difficult to pull off, or might not fit a wedding, but I think it would look good. Could even change it up with suit bottom and dress top, could be good

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

THATS FUCKING BALLER

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Another idea I had is Princess Viola from Princession Orchestra. Recently introduced character and i love the design. Granted this one might be better if you and your partner were both fans of the anime and did matching outfits

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

OKAY YES. LOVE THIS. ive never heard of that anime but it sounds so cool n luv the character design!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It’s an amazing anime, it’s got great character writing, great animation, and great music. Planned for 48 episodes and 36 have been released so far. Only thing that sucks is they aren’t officially distributing it outside of Japan yet so the only way to watch it is fansubs and piracy sites, but there’s a really good fansub that color codes the song lyrics.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

im a trans man and i love to be androgynous and gay looking but im not a personal fan of skirts and this is everythingg

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