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"Bisexuals always end up with men" bro I literally was in a relationship with a man and not a single time did I have sex with him while sober lmao even if I ended up with a man for some reason, it would not be that I prefer men to women
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Anonymous 4w

Unironically this is how I realized I was les cause I identified as bi knowing damn well I couldn’t touch a dick sober 😭

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Anonymous 4w

Hey if you can’t have sex with someone without being drunk, you need to figure out why that is. It’s not normal and is harming you

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Anonymous 4w

Like sorry that I like having sex and all you have to do to get a man to fuck you is tap him on the shoulder lol it takes a little more effort with women and women tend to be so much more offended by the concept of you not being interested in them and only wanting to fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Especially as a bisexual lmao now it's "you're a straight woman who uses women for their bodies but won't date them" like alright man lol I don't have time for this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Oh my god how profound and not obvious. So helpful for you to say "it's not normal", I wouldn't have known that! Anyways I will clarify that its not like I'm drinking in order to be able to have sex with a man, it's that I'm already drinking for fun and only when I have been drinking do I have any desire to have sex with a man lol your framing makes it seem a lot more dramatic than it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You framed it as you were IN A RELATIONSHIP with a man and only had sex when drunk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah but realistically I don't really care to identify as a lesbian, I identify as a person who fucks lol lesbians can keep whatever they have going on to themselves, I don't need to be involved in that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I didn't "frame it" as that, I said that explicitly lol. I was in a relationship with a man and only wanted to have sex after I was drinking. That is what I said lol thanks for repeating it I guess. There's nothing innately harmful about it but except on my liver lol I was gonna drink either way, that's like the main social activity I engage in

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

And it's not that I "can't" it's that I didn't lol I wasn't gonna go cry in a corner at the idea of having sec soberly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It can be psychologically damaging to only have sex when drunk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

So you are annoyed that women just don’t want to fuck? You are annoyed at women’s boundaries around sex? Just asking for clarification

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I said I was annoyed about something? Or you just made that up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

To me it's not lol sue me for enjoying drunk sex. And I also never said I only have sex when drunk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It came across as annoyed bc you said, “women tend to be more offended by the concept of you not being interested in them and only wanting to fuck them” it came across as annoyed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You only had sex with that partner while drunk and that can still be psychologically damaging. Please talk to a mental health professional about this bc I think that would help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Uhh i agreed with your initial post but this is weird tbh. Your experiences with men do not make women obligated to have sex with you and be easy. If youre not interested in them and only want to fuck, why would they wanna have sex with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like im sorry as a lesbian i do not date or fuck women who see relationships with women as secondary and are only interested jn fucking and using me as cannon fodder to fulfill you, and thats lowkey what youre implying rn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

“Whatever they have going on” ???

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Yeah this person is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Yeah. Whatever they have going on. It's not my business, I'm not a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Jesus Christ

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

We literally dated for 3 months for a summer lmao it's literally not that deep

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Its not be being annoyed, its saying I don't see a reason to try to pursue something with someone who's not interested in the same thing I am. It is easy to have sec with a man. I am looking to have easy sex. I am not looking to date anyone. Why would I seek someone out who I know is wanting to date and is not looking for easy sex? I don't understand what's controversial about that lol I leave people out of things they don't wanna be involved in and engage with people who do wanna be involved

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Nobody is obligated to do anything with me lol I am seeking casual. I find casual with men. I never complained that women don't wanna have casual sex lol I stated that most women do not want that and that's why I engage with men. Men are okay with you not wanting to date them and only wanting to fuck them, women are generally not. So I'm more often with men lol it's simple. This whole paragraph is just made up sentiments

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

This is exactly what I'm talking about lol it's not "relationships with women" it's relationships in general, and you take particular personal offense when there's nothing personal lol I don't wanna date a man either. Like yeah you don't have to be interested in being "used as cannon fodder" or whatever lol I engage with people who are okay with getting nothing from me but sex and those people tend to be men and they don't take it personally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Holy run on sentence

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Can you read it yes or no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Idk can you talk like a regular person

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