
Oh my god how profound and not obvious. So helpful for you to say "it's not normal", I wouldn't have known that! Anyways I will clarify that its not like I'm drinking in order to be able to have sex with a man, it's that I'm already drinking for fun and only when I have been drinking do I have any desire to have sex with a man lol your framing makes it seem a lot more dramatic than it is.
I didn't "frame it" as that, I said that explicitly lol. I was in a relationship with a man and only wanted to have sex after I was drinking. That is what I said lol thanks for repeating it I guess. There's nothing innately harmful about it but except on my liver lol I was gonna drink either way, that's like the main social activity I engage in
Its not be being annoyed, its saying I don't see a reason to try to pursue something with someone who's not interested in the same thing I am. It is easy to have sec with a man. I am looking to have easy sex. I am not looking to date anyone. Why would I seek someone out who I know is wanting to date and is not looking for easy sex? I don't understand what's controversial about that lol I leave people out of things they don't wanna be involved in and engage with people who do wanna be involved
Nobody is obligated to do anything with me lol I am seeking casual. I find casual with men. I never complained that women don't wanna have casual sex lol I stated that most women do not want that and that's why I engage with men. Men are okay with you not wanting to date them and only wanting to fuck them, women are generally not. So I'm more often with men lol it's simple. This whole paragraph is just made up sentiments
This is exactly what I'm talking about lol it's not "relationships with women" it's relationships in general, and you take particular personal offense when there's nothing personal lol I don't wanna date a man either. Like yeah you don't have to be interested in being "used as cannon fodder" or whatever lol I engage with people who are okay with getting nothing from me but sex and those people tend to be men and they don't take it personally