
I’m probably going to get a lot of hate for this but. If someone only wants to have a specific identity online, they don’t want to be associated with it in real life, and only sees it as fun… is it really something you can call your identity..? Sounds more like an online persona or alter ego, but not necessarily your actual identity.
Its more so that we understand neos are pretty strange to use irl and feel safer using them online, where we can interact with queer spaces more receptive to our identities. I have a set of “normal” pronouns to use irl but only because i hate them the least out of all the normal ones