LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I think its kinda funny how ppl aren’t critiquing the worst parts of what that one girl said, like why was like half of her video comparing masc lesbians to men like we’re some cheap imitation?

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LGBTQIA+ 19h

I think its kinda funny how ppl aren’t critiquing the worst parts of what that one girl said, like why was like half of her video comparing masc lesbians to men like we’re some cheap imitation?

Anonymous 19h

Not to mention her whole video was very trans exclusionary at best, idgaf if you don’t date women but no one told you to say all that

Anonymous 19h

Like she literally talked about why have a masc bc they are basically men who don’t have dicks. She is transphobic and harmful towards the queer community. I have found most of the women who have the I won’t date women mentality are the people who pose a threat towards lesbians and their safety

Anonymous 19h

What video is this?? I’m out of the loop apparently

Anonymous 17h

I’m treating her as ragebait tbh cause I refuse to believe that she genuinely thought that those opinions would be received well in the community; and even if she truly, thoroughly believes in everything she said, I sincerely hope that she unlearns that deeply internalized misogyny and homophobia because that mindset on love is so incredibly warped that it’s harmful to her and everyone else she interacts with.

Anonymous

#2 19h

A video talking about how it’s okay to be bi and only date men and she went on to list several homophobic and transphobic reasons for her take

Anonymous

#2 19h

Her name is Paris 🌙

Anonymous

#1 18h

“If i wanted a man i would just date the real thing” like what does real thing mean to you paris?

Anonymous

#3 18h

Her video pissed me off so much. I’m a masc lesbian who has previously dated trans women and it just obvious that Paris has no respect for the lesbian/sapphic community. Like people are more than their genitalia

Anonymous

#4 17h

It’s really disheartening to see the number of bisexual women that agree with her and are hyping her up in the comments. That’s what I feel like should be the bigger conversation

Anonymous

#1 17h

I completely agree, also thanks for filling everyone in with the context

Anonymous

#1 17h

I, myself, used to have internalized homophobia (went as bisexual before I accepted that I was a lesbian), and it is truly an awful way to live. Preferences exist and are totally valid, but I think this issue goes beyond personal preference by a long shot. I hope they mature and figure out their real identities beyond what they have been conditioned to believe.

Anonymous

#1 17h

Yikes :/ thank you for filling me in. Is this on here or TikTok?

Anonymous

#4 17h

No i understand. My ex gf, after taking my first time with a woman, told me “i cant see myself marrying a woman” and it hurt me deeply to know i was used to “figure herself out”. I later found her again on tinder “looking for men and women” which shows me shes not yet deconstructed her own identity and is still willing to lead women along in relationships.

Anonymous

#3 17h

Oh my god that’s terrible. I’m so sorry you were used and discarded like that—it’s almost like they don’t see us as human beings anymore. I hate how they’re inadvertently reinforcing negative, biphobic stereotypes because they can’t recognize their own misogyny. I hope you don’t have to go through that again.

Anonymous

#2 17h

Its on tiktok her tag is @duhparis if you want to watch the whole thing, if its still up

Anonymous

OP 16h

I don’t know if I want to from the sounds of it 😭 just gonna pmo

Anonymous

#2 16h

I understand 😭