Anonymous #1 11w

My best advice, don’t let anyone change your aesthetic. FOR ANYONE. Going on this journey of self discovery has really changed how I feel about everything. If you’re a spooky boy, go to where the spooky boys meet ❤️

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Anonymous OP 11w

Another tip, I learned, from one of my girl friends, is she told me “never waste a Friday night on a first day” — if that man isn’t willing to come with you to Walmart and shop you don’t need him.

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Anonymous OP 11w

This is all really good advice I’m not gonna lie. I don’t really know what my aesthetic is cause my whole life I’ve considered myself the stereotypical Barbie of the gay community to where I don’t necessarily fit into an aesthetic or “group”, I’m just gay if that makes sense lol

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Anonymous #1 11w

Honestly that’s fine too. Like one of the things that really helped me through my journey was this one diary off of TikTok and it gives you prompts to trauma dump. Like you lowkey just gotta jump in. Go to the club, go to the bar, there is literally so many men out there.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Well for one, what’s the tik tok handle so I can check it out and start doing that and secondly, legit I live in Southern California and the main place to find someone at the bar is West Hollywood and even then when I go there people are mainly looking for a good time and not a long time so it’s like finding a diamond in the rough I guess

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