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LGBTQIA+ 2w
why do yall get surprised that there are trans boys who dont pass and look “girly” when half of them are emo and their idols are all men who look like girls and also gerard they/them borderline transfem way
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Anonymous 2w

i just get surprised when they claim to be dysphoric but also purposely show off the features that make them dysphoric 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

because hrt is expensive and they want to dress how they want an sometimes you sacrifice the feelings for the fit it aint that hard to understand learning to love yourself and still having fun instead of being miserable and dysphoric as you wait to be able to transition isnt a crime

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i guess i just don’t really understand being able to do that. ofc i don’t ridicule those people or anything like that or police whether or not they’re trans. just something i never really understood

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Those same features that make some dysphoric might be the very same features which “typically” can be associated with their chosen gender. Ofc some don’t care about stereotypes and stuff, but for some (like me), dressing in typically feminine ways makes me feel good, even if I feel dysphoric about it. Yeah I might have some leg hair but look at my thighs yo

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