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do any sex repulsed asexual people worry about never getting married bc they think nobody will want to marry them
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Anonymous 7w

I did, but I met someone who’s also ace and we got married

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Anonymous 7w

Sometimes. But I do have faith all of us will find each other. I’d be fine if I had a platonic life partner as well (as I kind of struggle to see the difference between a “QPR” and an asexual romance anyway)

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Anonymous 7w

Why would anyone want to marry someone like this. Why do you even want to get married as a sex repulsed asexual

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Anonymous 7w

Because they most likely won’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

that’s amazing! i’m happy for you! i worry the same will not happen for me lol. a girl can dream tho!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

You realize that’s a really disheartening thing to say right? Not all relationships have to be about sex. Mine with my husband isn’t, we’re even poly and our bf does not push us, he has other partners he can turn to for that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Is love only based on sex to you?? You can be deeply in love with someone and not want to fuck them and still have a relationship. I have been with my husband for 6 years now and we have done nothing more than give each other a peck on the lips and we’re entirely content with that. To believe that you can’t love someone enough to marry them without sex being part of the equation is honestly disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

If ur ugly just say that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

really dodged the question man. if you don’t understand asexuality just say that, all you can come up with is an insult? some people just don’t factor sex into their attraction, just because your too narrow minded to even try to understand that doesn’t give you the right to insult people for correcting you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

according to? you? love is about more than sex, especially to ace people. if you don’t understand it that’s fine but stop projecting please

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i choose to not have sex. there have been plenty of people that have wanted to sleep with me, trust me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Yeah so that’s not a successful relationship, that’s letting your partner sleep with others because you can’t satisfy their needs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I understand it but your relationship is still a flop and you most likely won’t get married unless you let your partner cheat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

And basically you have no marriage, you’re just playing house

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

why are you even here bro, like you clearly do not understand anything about most queer relationships, not everyone wants a cishet monogamous relationship, just go be an annoying close minded jerk somewhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

not even close but keep trying, polyamory is not the same as cheating

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

also, more than one ace person exists? like you do realize not everyone on the planet needs to have sex to have a successful relationship??? like dude be so fr just get out of here if you don’t even want to try to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

If you can’t have any kind of intimacy you’re not really having a relationship you’re just hanging out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Polyamory is basically cheating but pretending its not, aro/ace is just a made up label for people that want to pretend they’re oppressed for being virgins

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

sex is not the only kind of intimacy bro. emotional intimacy and physical intimacy do not need to be sexual to have a romantic connotation

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I really don’t care. Have fun playing pretend in your made up “marriage”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

again, just because you don’t understand- doesn’t mean it isn’t real

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

You don’t have either

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

yeah buddy? lol, just go be sad and boring somewhere else you clearly don’t need to be here, hope you have the day you deserve :3

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

tf do you mean i don’t have either?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

are you that out of arguments???

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I do understand its just not real and you’re playing pretend you’re just in denial about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

clearly you don’t man, like genuinely there’s no way around it, multiple people have told you off, multiple people have said you’re wrong, because you are. there are tons of very healthy and successful asexual relationships, just because you don’t want to believe it doesn’t mean they don’t exist bro. like? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

You’ll understand when your husband ultimately leaves you for people that actually satisfy his needs #soon

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Anonymous 7w

i can’t? you know me now? lmao, just stop projecting your insecurities and ignorance, like literally you clearly DO NOT UNDERSTAND anything about asexual relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

he’s asexual too broskie, but nice try

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

also not every man is a sex obsessed cheater in the making, just because yours is doesn’t mean that’s universal ✌️

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