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LGBTQIA+ 1w
does anyone have any advice on having a sex drive mismatch? mine is high and my bfs is almost non existent and idk how to make it work without one or both of us suffering
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Anonymous 1w

depends on how comfortable you two are with different kinds of compromise. my wife has a much stronger drive than me, but she doesn’t mind masturbating while i snuggle/kiss her and i really don’t mind a kind of one sided sexual situation.

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Anonymous 1w

I have never been in a situation where this works so interested to see what others say

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Anonymous 1w

Masturbation is a thing!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i feel weird doing that but i think I might have to because once a month for 15 minutes is killing me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

totally get it. it took a while for us to figure out what works for us. personally, even when we’re having sex i’m not super stressed about when/if i orgasm (stone/service top 🙋‍♀️) and that took some adjusting to for her. but we’re in a place now where she feels comfortable initiating bc she trusts me to tell her if i’m really not down for anything, and i like it because i really do enjoy intimacy with her i just don’t have a strong libido.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Masturbation doesn’t have the same connection as sex tho, sometimes when I have sex with a partner it’s not about getting off it’s about the feeling of closeness

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