i think ur taking this too personally… being able to bed rot is a good thing, i personally believe it’s part of our healing. some people just don’t have that opportunity; i remember when i was never allowed to, so it makes me much more appreciative that i have more freedom to do so. that’s just my experience tho
i’m sorry that your experience with bedrotting is different, but obviously what i said doesn’t apply to you when you say you are in pain? bed rotting can be a positive experience for some and negative for others. you really are reading too much into it because it’s not that serious and my comment was not an attack on you. wishing you peace rn
That’s why I do it too, but you need to take things that aren’t directed at you less seriously for your own state of wellbeing. I promise it wasn’t deep. Life will get a lot easier if you just learn to say “screw it” and move on. People take life way too seriously which is how some people find themselves so deep in depression. Don’t let other people’s words get to you because we’re all going thru something. We’re only here once.