LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | SORRY let me rephrase I see the point of being with men socially. It’s easier in social dynamics like with family and it would potentially be both easier and cheaper to have a kid. But I like women more. And I use the term queer instead of Bi.

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LGBTQIA+ 1w

SORRY let me rephrase I see the point of being with men socially. It’s easier in social dynamics like with family and it would potentially be both easier and cheaper to have a kid. But I like women more. And I use the term queer instead of Bi.

LGBTQIA+ 1w

Friends, am I just a lesbian if I call myself queer because I can see the appealing side of men but only for social reasons?

Anonymous 1w

that’s just what comphet is. we all know it’s easier to just not be gay and some people try to just not be gay but ultimately you can’t really decide that and force yourself to just not be gay cuz it’s easier

Anonymous 6d

You are probably a lesbian but if you don’t feel comfortable enough with calling yourself that then continue using queer.

Anonymous 1w

And by easier with family I mean like my family would be more accepting! Not like it’s easier to have a family with a man. Some of you guys like to jump to conclusions

Anonymous

#1 1w

I’m not forcing myself to not be gay 😂 I feel like I’m trying to force myself to also be open to men and I don’t know if this is like a normal thing or not

Anonymous

OP 6d

you’re trying to force yourself to be open to relationships that are more socially acceptable because you feel like you should despite not being interested in them. it’s a very normal thing to do and many people experience it. it’s called compulsory heterosexuality, engaging in heterosexual relationships because you feel compelled to by social forces. but ultimately it’s not good for you or fair to them to force yourself into relationships with people you’re not into