Anonymous #1 5d

Trans people can be men and women. We’re not a separate category. If you’re bi and like men and women, you like trans people.

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Anonymous #1 5d

There are binary trans people and bisexuality is not exclusive to just binary identities.

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Anonymous OP 5d

No one said they can’t but there unfortunately is a category, otherwise the term “cis” would be equivalent to having no meaning, and yes being bi does include men and women who could be trans but that’s not what the majority would relate too due to pure lack of education. Also if someone is bi let them be there version of bi, enforcing them to like you seems unrealistic in a relationship anyways so why would you force someone to be attracted to you.

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Anonymous #3 5d

"I don't like the implication that i just projected onto you"

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Anonymous #3 5d

Did I say that we’re “entitled to relationships” with you? Or did I say that liking men and women but not trans men and trans women is strange, because they’re men and women

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Anonymous #1 5d

So if someone says “I’m attracted to women but not Irish women. It’s not because they’re Irish , I just don’t like women who have freckles and red hair and are Catholic.” Is that not them just stereotyping all Irish women?

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Anonymous OP 5d

No, but that’s where a lot of these conversation dissolve into. I’m trans myself, but it’s very difficult to have conversations about relationships in the community without this air of “you HAVE to date me or you’re transphobic”. Again not about the OOP, bc they are 100% transphobic

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Anonymous OP 5d

Yeah let’s leave sexual identity and ethnicity identity in its respective categories as well. This is the last I will be responding to you because you clearly cannot grasp the fact that no matter what is said you’ll be unhappy simply because society does not cater to the individual. A that fact that you presented the stereotype to your perception of all Irish women shows your biased character even more. Your so stuck on proving that trans women are real women when it’s clear what what you think

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Anonymous #1 5d

I’m Irish. I’m saying stereotypes that were and are used against us. Also “stuck on proving trans women are real women” IS WILDDDD like sorry in one sentence you’re both implying that trans women just aren’t women, and that cis women are the only “real women” if we wanna talk about prejudice and shit you’ve just done the biggest Freudian slip I’ve ever seen

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Anonymous #3 5d

Ok but this isn’t those discussions. This discussion is this discussion about OOP

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Anonymous #3 5d

“trans people are entitled to relationships with [x group]” is a transphobic trope and it’s really disgusting to see someone who is trans repeat it. no one is *entitled* to a relationship with another person, but when someone chooses to *exclude* a group of people that is discriminatory. i don’t want every bigot to be assigned a trans partner, i want bigots to unlearn their bigotry and trans people to be viewed as equal persons—including as someone one might build a life with.

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Anonymous #1 5d

Holy self-report 😭

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