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LGBTQIA+ 15h

i thought i was asexual until i met my bf. anyone else experience this?

Anonymous 14h

i thought i was somewhere on the asexual spectrum for a bit until i met my bf super strange experience for me bc it was a bit jarring cause sex always freaked me out and sounded lame and uncomfortable i think i still semi fall on that spectrum still, but not as much as i had thought prior

Anonymous 12h

You might be demisexual then?

Anonymous 10h

didn’t happen for me (still ace) but it did for my ex

Anonymous 13h

Lowkey fed coded post

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Anonymous

#2 13h

i’m not 😭 just a confused 20 year old lol

Anonymous

#1 13h

i still think i am but idk where i fall. it’s so confusing. i’ve only ever been in love with him, so i feel like it may be like more a romantic thing?

Anonymous

#2 12h

other queer people going through self exploration/discovery isn’t “fed coded.”

Anonymous

#3 12h

wait i’ve never looked into that and it’s so fitting

Anonymous

OP 12h

i can't remember what the identity is, but there is a sexuality that has sexual attraction connected to romance/connection with that person (e.g., you don't often experience sexual attraction to strangers, but you do for someone you're really close to) but yeah, it's super confusing when figuring it out for the first time lol i just like to remember that queerness is messy and exploration is messy and figuring things out is also messy and things shift and change alllll the time

Anonymous

OP 11h

Happy to help :)

Anonymous

#2 10h

They didn’t even say anything weird

Anonymous

#1 10h

Demisexual!