ngl I feel like this attachment style stuff is 20% based in reality and then 80% people pigeonholing themselves into whichever one they identified with. this isn't like your blood type or something, you can change and overcome any unhealthy thought pattern

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attachment styles can change and you can have different attachment styles with different people! try to keep an eye on your own behaviors and do the best you can to change for the better I've always been described as highly avoidant by my therapists but funny enough once i got with my partner i was still described as overall avoidant but specifically secure with him! it just takes some work and self awareness

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