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12 upvotes, 5 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+.
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Anonymous 25w

babe, and i say this in the most respectful way possible, you prob need some therapy and work through how you feel about relationships before getting into a new one or worrying about another relationship

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Anonymous 25w
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 25w

This is also very applicable to me:

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

Im not looking for a new relationship right now, dw. I also have a wonderful therapist. We just haven’t talked much about relationships is all. I also had a few previous relationships where things were much worse, never had a healthy one, so I’m still just trying to learn. I always do my best to learn when I fuck up, and I always embrace communication and understanding. But yeah, it also feels like Im missing crucial things to understand. Especially about not letting my needs be cast aside.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 25w

Do you mean with the whole “tolerating neglect and abuse hoping things will change with interventions” thing is what I should be focused on?

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