
Oh. The issue is consent. I do think Some people have a stronger reaction to a cheater than they do a rapist or an abuser and that’s fucked up, but if ur in a committed relationship and fucking other people behind their back that’s still Bad. Doing it w their consent is fine however. And if you’re in an abusive relationship where you can’t leave and are cheating my only qualm is how fucking dangerous that can be. Nuance.