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i'm so attracted to androgyny but i worry that makes me a chaser. i don't really care about genitals or surgeries or even necessarily transness- i'm genderqueer and androgynous myself and i find ppl who also get a lil freaky with their gender so so hot.
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Anonymous 4w

Its not liking trans people that makes someone a chaser. Its about fetishizing and othering trans people. You are good captain good luck

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Anonymous 4w

it just happens to be mostly trans people as of late. and i feel guilty about that

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Anonymous 4w

I’m non-binary and am almost exclusively nb4nb and (speaking from experience) it’s really only chasing if you fetishize the “dissonance” between their androgyny and their genitals

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Anonymous 4w

yeahh this is rather normal, you are not a chaser

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

thanks chief, this helped

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

at least that’s what I consider chasing when other people do it to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i just know i find androgyny and queerness attractive because thats me seeing myself in other ppl. i am also pretty much nb 4 nb. i guess i should make the distinction between trans nb and trans binary. genitals are kinda whatever to me tbh, i've pretty much seen it all and its all fun, not something to fetishize

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