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LGBTQIA+ 1d
Bi men: The same straight women who fetishize gay men: WELL ACTUALLY I DON’T DATE BI MEN BECAUSE OF *insert Reagan era AIDS propaganda* Bi men: that’s bi/homophobic Straight women: SO WE HAVE TO DATE BI MEN OR WE’RE BI/HOMOPHOBIC???
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Anonymous 1d

As a bi man I see it every time. No straight woman I wouldn’t give you AIDS but bold of you to assume I’d fuck you in the first place with a mindset like that. Yeah my preference for men isn’t always a bad thing sometimes

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah, that’s one reason why I don’t like to date straight women. bi for bi is probably the best

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Anonymous 22h

I’ve been seeing this stupid “discourse” come up again and they’re actually so delusional it’s not even funny and they don’t even see it or how they’re using misogynistic talking points that demean them too😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

They act like we shouldn’t be asking ALL new sexual partners for an STD test before they get intimate, regardless of what they tell you their sexual history is. Everyone is capable of lying, not knowing, being asymptomatic, etc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yes exactly! The straight boys they fuck are just as likely to have HIV or STIs but they never say shit about them, they just wanna be homophobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Like girl I promise you the likelihood of getting an STD from a bi man is just about equivalent (if not less, but doesn’t matter) to getting one from the straight guy who told you he’s definitely not seeing anyone else Like at the end of the day they never have a real reason, it’s always because they see bi men as “dirty”, in denial, or inherently promiscuous

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I do love how they act like we WANT to date them when they speak about our sexuality this way Like no, I actually don’t want to date a person who thinks I’m itching to cheat on them with a man at the first possible second, or who thinks I don’t actually love them because I’m gay and in denial, or that thinks that I’m less of a man for being attracted to other men, or who thinks my sexuality will default to straight once I start dating someone of the opposite gender

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