Anonymous #3 2d

i think its some new straight people way of saying women who has lots of sex, but like derogatory because apparently women having sex is bad

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Anonymous #1 2d

if i have to start taking cartoon sound effects seriously as insults, I think I'm going to lose it

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Anonymous #4 2d

no literally

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Anonymous #1 2d

Also 99% chance he doesn’t wash his ass

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Anonymous #4 2d

a cis het man cant touch his own ass to wash it because thats gay /j

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Anonymous #1 2d

Imagine being afraid of your own body parts

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Anonymous #4 2d

im trans so unfortunately i dont have to imagine lol

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Anonymous #1 2d

Lmao at least you have a valid reason

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Anonymous #3 2d

yeah bop means like slut it’s stupid

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Anonymous #7 1d

Slut shaming? More like slut celebrating!

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Anonymous #9 1d

I mean people experiment sometimes I think they’re saying that they have identified as a lesbian but experimented with a man who they found themself attracted to despite their identity and now are questioning their identity

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Anonymous #11 1d

correction, they weren’t attracted to him, but could see he was objectively attractive.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Thanks for the correction! I didn’t see the original post so I haven’t seen the full message

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Anonymous #11 1d

yeah no worries. honestly i wasn’t going to throw my hat into the discord right but you seem chill, so all imma say is that we should listen to the aromantic and asexual communities regardless the difference between sexual and romantic attraction and relationship. like personally im romantically a lesbian and honestly being a women who loves women is part of my gender. however, i also see sex as a casual thing, so like eh whatever there ill take anyone so long as arnt an asshole

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Anonymous #4 1d

Y’all assuming a man made that comment, yet I’m pretty sure that came from a fellow lesbian

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Anonymous #12 1d

don't get it twisted, this was definitely an incel man lol

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Anonymous #3 1d

idk, i've seen sapphics legit say this kinda thing on public accounts.

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Anonymous #3 1d

to my knowledge, bop is like a derogatory version of sex worker (notably/mainly an OF girlie) [re: bophouse]

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Anonymous #3 1d

bop is short for blown out p***y unfortunately

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Anonymous #12 1d

Don’t quit your day job lmao

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Anonymous #19 1d

excuse me?

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Anonymous #12 1d

don’t uitqay ouryay ayday objay

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Anonymous #22 1d

Oh my fucking gods, get over yourself.

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Anonymous #22 1d

Let do something together

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Anonymous #24 1d

Because people deserve to safely and comfortable explore themselves and labels are not rigid.

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Anonymous #8 1d

nah real, I be cackling at that shit

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Anonymous #2 1d

“get over” myself because lesbians dont find sex with men fun? why are you guys so biphobic 😭 like its OK!!!! to be bi! bisexual girls are amazing! you dont have to be a lesbian just bc u like girls. if u find sex with men fun it just means ur not les. theres literally nothing wrong with that.

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Anonymous #1 1d

OP here- YES! THIS! sex is a casual thing and i wanted to experiment. i had fun despite my lack of attraction to the guy. he’s a great dude and it was nice to bond with him and have fun doing adult things.

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Anonymous #22 1d

I feel like it depends *how* she had fun

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Anonymous #22 1d

Like, a straight guy can boo another guy and have fun but not be attracted to men

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Anonymous #4 1d

Blow*

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Anonymous #22 1d

For real

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Anonymous #24 1d

You should try mine I think you missing

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Anonymous #1 1d

Do you wish to go

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Anonymous #4 1d

uh no. if a guy had fun blowing another guy hes not straight. hes bisexual. why do bisexuals scare you guys so much?

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Anonymous #9 1d

Don’t be they wanted to feel the same feelings

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Anonymous #22 1d

Being bi is different from experimenting

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Anonymous #4 1d

OP again- sexual satisfaction + workout + nice guy = fun… same way that a drunk makeout sesh with a rando at a bar is fun

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Anonymous #4 1d

experimenting and not liking it is different from experimenting and having fun

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Anonymous OP 1d

You got the hit 😂

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Anonymous #23 1d

god forbid a girl like orgasms and feeling wanted

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Anonymous OP 1d

im sorry but this is genuinely just bisexual. lesbians dont get sexual satisfaction from having sex with men and its often very traumatic and unenjoyable. if you were able to have fun then thats a major red flag that youre not actually a lesbian. the fact that the guy was nice also doesnt change anything - lesbians arent interested in fucking guys OR nice guys. a drunk makeout sesh with a rando at a bar is also only fun if theyre a girl (as a lesbian) and extremely gross if theyre a guy.

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Anonymous #22 1d

are you a lesbian? do you get to speak for every lesbian out there? take a good long look at the lesbian handbook and get back to me. there’s so much repressed trauma and comphet feelings going on in the lesbian community, that no one person’s experience and feelings are the same.

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Anonymous OP 1d

if you can like and achieve orgasms from men then youre not lesbian 😭 there really isnt a more simple way to put it. you seemed to be struggling with your sexuality in that original post anyway, so its a bit confusing why youre so defensive over the thought that youre bisexual. its ok to not be lesbian. its ok to be bi. youre not any lesser for having fun with guys too

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Anonymous #22 1d

I feel like you’re getting defensive out of fear that this conversation opens the door up to creepy men who want to beg lesbians to “give them a try.” But it doesn’t, and that behavior is still not acceptable even if some lesbians like to experiment outside of their sexuality

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Anonymous OP 1d

yes i am a lesbian. LOL. why tf would i talk about this if i were not. also the lesbian masterdoc was literally written by a het-leaning bisexual. this is public information. comphet is a subconscious pull towards imitating heterosexual behaviors in a heteronormative society, not a conscious decision to fuck guys and have fun while doing so

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Anonymous #4 1d

not agreeing with you ≠ getting defensive. at the end of the day words have meaning and this just strips labels of their power. like i said before, experimenting is fine, but if you find that you enjoyed it while experimenting, ur no longer a lesbian

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Anonymous #22 1d

I’m trying to defend myself bcuz I’m still a lesbian. sexual pleasure =/= attraction. i felt nothing emotionally the whole time. i got no pleasure from seeing him naked. i closed my eyes as we fucked. i experimented, enjoyed myself in a safe space, contemplated my feelings, and stuck to the label i feel fits me.

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Anonymous #22 1d

Idk man. Labels aren’t perfect and while we should try to be accurate, at the end of the day sexuality is weird and hard to pin down. To me it makes sense that some lesbians could enjoy sexual encounters with men in a different way than how they enjoy encounters with women. Kind of like how some ace people enjoy sex sometimes but in a different way than how sexual people do

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Anonymous OP 1d

if you can get off and have fun from having sex with a man youre just not a lesbian 😭 thats fine and i think you need to reflect on why youre so scared of losing your label

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Anonymous #4 1d

so lesbian is actually a very accurate label meant to pinpoint a severe end of a spectrum where there is no attraction to men at all and only attraction to women/nb. the way that some ace people enjoy sex comes from being in the middle of the ace spectrum, not at the very extreme end. lesbianism is the very extreme end. you are thinking of bisexuality

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Anonymous #22 1d

But she said she felt no attraction

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Anonymous #4 1d

lesbian is in fact a very rigid and perfectly well-defined label. if you do not see it as perfect then that label does not perfectly fit you and you are not a lesbian

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Anonymous #4 1d

that includes sexual attraction and enjoyment. an actual lesbian will not get off and have fun due to a man fucking them

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Anonymous #22 1d

i love how you missed the whole point of the post

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Anonymous #22 1d

Yeah, it is okay to be bi! But it’s also okay to explore and conclude that you’re not bi because not everyone is.

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Anonymous #1 1d

What is this 1895?

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Anonymous #28 1d

So sick of people who feel entitled to tell people how they should live their lives 🙄 if it doesn’t affect you, mind your own damn business. That guys an a**hole

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Anonymous #18 1d

Crazy how we keep coming up with new words to degrade women. Yet we don’t seem to have very many words for men 🤔

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Anonymous #10 1d

They just woke up choosing to be pathetic

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Anonymous #22 1d

There are also such things as heteroflexible and homoflexible btw. Which I believe is a more accurate description of what people who are generally into one type of gender but explores and have fun with the other from time to time.

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Anonymous #22 1d

Labels are meant to be a tool but when people like you think of them as a guideline for a person to only ever be one way, that’s when they become a problem. It’s not fair of you to tell someone how they should I identify themselves because you think labels acts as rules people should follow by. Labels like these are just a way to help people describe their overall preferences but that doesn’t mean it will cover everything they prefer. Just like life, with time and experiences, things changes.

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Anonymous #28 1d

Opinions and preferences changes. You can go through a whole book about the whole break down of all the sexual preferences there are in the world and feel like you have a strong sense of what you like but you won’t actually know until you truly Experience it. So yes, they may identify as a lesbian but recently had an experience that made them try something out of their ordinary and found a liking to it. That does NOT mean they now have to identify as Bi. Maybe homoflexible if they make a pattern

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Anonymous #28 1d

Out of it, but that is up for THEM to decide and no one else.

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Anonymous #28 1d

yes you’re my favorite this was so well explained and thought out thank you 🙏

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Anonymous OP 1d

💖It was my pleasure to help🤗. I’ve never liked labels and seeing someone try to shove the idea that “Labels have the power to control what you can and can’t like,” was upsetting to see. We’re in 2026 and yet there are still so many out there that feels they have the right to tell someone how they should identify themselves. If that’s how they think of labels and carry themselves, that is fine. But it’s not fair to push those same ideals on others who clearly feels differently.

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Anonymous #28 1d

And tell them they are wrong for identifying themselves how they want to. Labels only touch the surface level on one’s sexual preferences. It’s conversations like this that actually gets in depth on a persons preferences that should only TRULY matter and actually HOLD POWER. If heteros can experiment in college and still identify as straight, then anyone on the LGBT+ spectrum can experiment and still consider themselves what they were before they experimented too. It’s that simple.

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Anonymous #28 23h

based and nuanced take hell yeah

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Anonymous #23 23h

do i wish to go?

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Anonymous #19 15h

are you 9 million years old what are u doing on yikyak unc

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