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Yeah that’s because what someone else chooses to do with their sex lives is not my business or concern unless it’s illegal

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Anonymous #1 7w

Thats true but can we talk about how many kinks are rooted in trauma and if that trauma was addressed in therapy they might be able to express their desires in a healthier way…

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Anonymous OP 7w

Not everyone can afford or wants therapy. Shaming them for what they choose to do to address their trauma is not beneficial to anyone

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Anonymous #1 7w

Well no there’s healthy and unhealthy ways to address your trauma… People have to know when a method isn’t healthy

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ok, well I’m not going to automatically assume someone’s kink is based on or rooted in trauma. You can go ahead and tell a stranger you know what’s best for them. Healthy/unhealthy is largely subjective to the person, and it’s not my business to make assumptions based off of a Grindr bio

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Anonymous #1 7w

Im trying to be respectful but… you can absolutely tell when somethings not healthy such as wanting a man to abuse and degrade you sexually and call you transphobic slurs? Are u slow no shade?

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Anonymous OP 7w

Lmao that tells me everything I need to know about you. If I’m slow then you’re really something else. Again, if that is what you like sexually and you’re going through life fine and happy and functioning, then so be it. Idk how plainly that can be stated but then again..

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