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LGBTQIA+ 18h
Everybody missing the point. Like "it's none of your business" okay? Nothing is my business lol sorry that I would like to actually understand you as a person? Yeah obviously I'm gonna call you what you want but I'd like to actually see you how you want
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I'm just not sure I'll ever be woke enough to understand "trans people don't owe you femininity/masculinity" like yeah sure but genuinely what does it mean to identify as a man if you're born female and are hyperfeminine and aren't even friends with men?
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Anonymous 16h

The thing is that some men are just fem and some women are just masc, gender identity is separate from femininity/masculinity

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Anonymous 12h

That’s all fine but you have to actually TRY to understand. OP is just arguing

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Anonymous 17h

I feel like the whole “mind your business” or “why do you care” approach is setting us back because sometimes people are genuinely curious and it’s met with defensiveness

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

I'm OP. I am trying to understand. Everyone is intentionally misunderstanding what I'm saying. I never said you have to be masculine to be a man and for some reason every comment on that post is "men can be feminine" like that's literally missing the post. And then person tried to offer an actual explanation based on their experience, but I already understand what they're saying because their experience is not the circumstance I'm talking about in the post

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