AND IF THERES AN ASIAN, HES IS ***ALWAYS*** THE BOTTOM?! AND IF THERES A BLACK MAN HES ***ALWAYS*** the top?!

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No clue why it’s downvoted, this is such a common trope especially in mlm media written by people who aren’t gay men, they maybe subconsciously make one of the guys big and buff and manly and the other small and weak and submissive. While bear/twink and dom/sub relationships exist irl and are valid (hate that word) in media written by ppl who aren’t gay men, you can kinda get the vibe that they’re using those dynamics to replicate a hetero one

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Not because it’s wrong to be feminine, but because writers explicitly write them that way to appease to heterosexual gender norms?

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Or Am I just crazy

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Lowkey? If we’re gonna have a more masc and more fem one i want the big top to be the fem one and the small bottom to be the masc one. Or like, small fem top. Please I need more of it GIMME SOME VARIETY!!! And also like,,,, feed into my kinks, a small fem dom top would cure me I think

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