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LGBTQIA+ 4d
should i call myself a lesbian or bisexual if i’m *theoretically* attracted to men but wouldn’t date a man?
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Anonymous 4d

Lowkey I think sometimes it’s okay to use lesbian to mean “will only be in relationships with women.” Because like yeah, maybe you’re hypothetically attracted to men, but if you’re not ever going to date them, and calling yourself a lesbian gets that point across better, call urself a lesbian

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Anonymous 4d

this is the perfect opportunity to call yourself a lesBIan

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Anonymous 4d

whichever flag you like better

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Anonymous 4d

Call yourself what you want. You might be bisexual homoromantic, speaking academically, but just simplify it to “lesbian” or “bi” for ease of communication

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

not sure why this got downvoted because this is solid advice. i’m personally bisexual but homoromantic, and i also simplify to “gay” (i’m a man) for ease of communication

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

sorry got this switched. i’m homosexual but biromantic

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

i feel like a fake queer the way i didn’t know different terms had FLAGS?????? mind is blown rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

oh hell yeah. plus some terms have more than one flag that people have made and then you get to pick :]

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