
It fully depends on who the people are and the context. I play a sport where open, queer woman are a rarity, but I’m comfortable if the entire group of woman are players of my sport. If not, then I’m just hanging around people who I have nothing in common with, which feels like an unsafe space. If I’m in a room full of queer men, we share experiences and history, and that’s always something that can be talked about, but I also fear men, so… pick your poison ig