That asexual fear of being alone forever because you don’t want a relationship where you’re expected to give more than you can. If I’m in a relationship with someone who’s allo, it’ll always be uneven. It’ll always feel like I’m loving halfway.
tbh as an ace person I've just accepted that I'll need to find another ace person or I'll be disappointing them in some way
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Anonymous3w
this :(
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Anonymous#13w
Yeah. But ace people are kinda hard to find.
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AnonymousOP3w
i figure it'll happen when it happens. until then... oh well
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AnonymousOP3w
Same 🥹 tried it but I always feel like I’m like not giving enough even when they say their alright with it. But it never works out.
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Anonymous#23w
yeah, that's my experience as well, plus some cheating that I end up blaming myself for
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Anonymous#13w
Never lasted long enough for them to cheat but I always feel guilty or like they hate me so it never turns into much. But I’m learning to except that I’m not perfect for everyone
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Anonymous#23w
and nobody is, so don't beat yourself up about it. we're all just doing our best