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ok fine I could be trans but like, is ok common that I don't see myself going thru the whole transition process? like, I would love if I could just click a button and immediately become a girl or idk do drag. pls tell me I'm not tripping
as a man I really wish I was a lesbian woman, but I also don't think I'm trans. I wish I was just like that one Gen V character that swaps genders mid fight
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Anonymous 3w

yes lol. most trans people don’t *want* to be trans or have to transition, they just wish they were a man/woman. unfortunately the only way to get to that endpoint is thru the middle.

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Anonymous 3w

One of my friends from home has thos same thought process now shes 2 years on hrt and doing a lot better

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Anonymous 3w

You arent tripping and we will support you every step of the way whether you decide to transition or dont ❤️

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Anonymous 2w

yeah that’s a pretty common thought process to go through. I put off transition for years because I didn’t think I had what it takes or it would be too hard or stressful. I’ve been on HRT for like 8 months now, I feel a lot better like I’m so much more alive and happier and more confident. I’m better in my relationship, I’m better in my social life, I’m more present in my personal life, and being present makes it a lot easier to do well in my professional life

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Anonymous 3w

I’m really glad other trans people are coming to the realization of what trans identities CAN be.(some are still stigmatized in areas as they’re only being xyz). I came out as genderfluid because I could never be one or the other. I could never JUST be nonbinary either. My gender is fluid :). You may be another trans term so do research! I wish you sm luck frend ! 🩷‼️

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Anonymous 3w

omglob what am i saying wrong now??? i feel like my advice is totes mcgoats sound and good so why is everyone downvoty me :333

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Anonymous 3w

omglob also baby steps are still steps forwardy!!! so don’t think u gotta take giant leaps to get to ur goals (u can still do that if u want) but like even trying out diff pronouns and trying what u like and what u don’t!!! enjoy fren and have so much funsies!!! :333

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Anonymous 3w

idk how omglob and :333 are middle schooler talk yall deff need to talk to more tgirls cuz i see so many of us use :3 all the time !! as far as omglob i just like LSP

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Anonymous 3w

omglob yesss ty #3 genderfluid is a great term to learn about and remember labels only matter to u don’t let others perception deter u away from finding out more layers of urself!!! :333 be you and be whoever u wanna be!!! love is love is love :333

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Anonymous 3w

also i’m not the one with thin skin it’s not bullying per se but im not the one that feels anything but good cuz they don’t get to police how someone else might type/speak let people have their own thing without feeling ticked about it

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Anonymous 3w

omglob welcome to the club !!! :333 also u can totes mcgoats just test the waters the point of finding urself and where u stand is ur not standing in concrete!!! if u wanna move on or even move back ur totes allowed and welcomed. it’s ur journey and there isn’t a RIGHT way to do it just a way that feels right to you !! :333

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

oh lord 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

also it’s generally pretty hard to visualize what the process of transition looks like bc there aren’t many representations in popular culture. also, it’s hard to visualize what a “completed” transition looks like because trans people aren’t represented “post”-transition in popular culture and often aren’t as present in trans spaces bc they don’t need (as much) community support anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

it’s gonna be ok lol. you don’t have to do anything, just be open to experimenting/exploring what you feel and if you can spend time in lesbian + transfemme spaces (irl is best, esp if you can go to a queer community center, but online is also great).

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

people have no whimsy ig 😒

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I think its the way you speak like an 8 year old but could be wrong

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Anonymous 3w

Who’s bullying anyone? This person spams comment sections and makes serious conversations childish by choosing to type like a middle schooler. Im explaining that is likely the reason people are downvoting and if you take that as bullying you have thin skin my dude 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

again, no whimsy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

🔥

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

“No whimsy” this person is discussing their gender identity and theyre asking for help with working through it. They probably dont need whimsy at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

All im saying is people are downvoting bc theyre prollly annoyed by the deeply unserious commenter spamming

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

it’s still good advice dawg 😭 I’d love to get a comment like that, it’s refreshing. I get if it’s not your cup of tea but OP hasnt had any issues with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

fair enough ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

also sorry for the other comment, I was being rude for no reason. LGBTQIA+ mind virus got me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Crying not the mind virus 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

it’s like the woke mind virus but it mutated into the problematic mind virus 😔 I’m cured now tho dw

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

not the good ending

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

sometimes it can happen on here!! Rare tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

No one is policing you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

the whole process is definitely difficult and confusing and where you live and who you’re around can change the process a lot but I think it’s well worth it. Most people go through the same stages you’re going through right now “I just wanna be a woman in my sex life”, “if i could push a button I would hit transition is too hard” etc. those are all like valid concerns but ultimately if you’re unhappy and you know what would make you happier you just have to go for that

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