
yeah that’s a pretty common thought process to go through. I put off transition for years because I didn’t think I had what it takes or it would be too hard or stressful. I’ve been on HRT for like 8 months now, I feel a lot better like I’m so much more alive and happier and more confident. I’m better in my relationship, I’m better in my social life, I’m more present in my personal life, and being present makes it a lot easier to do well in my professional life
I’m really glad other trans people are coming to the realization of what trans identities CAN be.(some are still stigmatized in areas as they’re only being xyz). I came out as genderfluid because I could never be one or the other. I could never JUST be nonbinary either. My gender is fluid :). You may be another trans term so do research! I wish you sm luck frend ! 🩷‼️
omglob welcome to the club !!! :333 also u can totes mcgoats just test the waters the point of finding urself and where u stand is ur not standing in concrete!!! if u wanna move on or even move back ur totes allowed and welcomed. it’s ur journey and there isn’t a RIGHT way to do it just a way that feels right to you !! :333
also it’s generally pretty hard to visualize what the process of transition looks like bc there aren’t many representations in popular culture. also, it’s hard to visualize what a “completed” transition looks like because trans people aren’t represented “post”-transition in popular culture and often aren’t as present in trans spaces bc they don’t need (as much) community support anymore.
the whole process is definitely difficult and confusing and where you live and who you’re around can change the process a lot but I think it’s well worth it. Most people go through the same stages you’re going through right now “I just wanna be a woman in my sex life”, “if i could push a button I would hit transition is too hard” etc. those are all like valid concerns but ultimately if you’re unhappy and you know what would make you happier you just have to go for that