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Advice needed!! An old friend of mine (who I also had feelings for) ghosted me way back in April with no explanation or warning. They just texted me a lwk shitty apology and wanna talk again. What do I do? They really hurt me and it’s been so long. Idkwtd
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Anonymous 20w

history is doomed to repeat itself. they ghosted you once, they’ll ghost you again (speaking from personal experience)

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Anonymous 20w

apologies don’t have to be accepted and you’re not obligated to let people back in

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Anonymous 20w

Just be blunt with them, say hey, you ghosted me and I don’t want to open myself to more of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

This!

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