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LGBTQIA+ 1w
Advice needed!! An old friend of mine (who I also had feelings for) ghosted me way back in April with no explanation or warning. They just texted me a lwk shitty apology and wanna talk again. What do I do? They really hurt me and it’s been so long. Idkwtd
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Anonymous 1w

history is doomed to repeat itself. they ghosted you once, they’ll ghost you again (speaking from personal experience)

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Anonymous 1w

apologies don’t have to be accepted and you’re not obligated to let people back in

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Anonymous 1w

hear them out if u want. you aren’t obligated to let them back into your life. you don’t have to decide what to do right now, but they put the ball in your court. Do what you feel is right for you

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Anonymous 1w

Just be blunt with them, say hey, you ghosted me and I don’t want to open myself to more of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

This!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

(it’s also ok if you want to ghost them and move on)

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