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LGBTQIA+ 1d
got a DM while talking on a trans voice-training Discord server. talked a lot and clicked. both aspec and flirted intermittently. shared some fantasies then got sent a smut fic that was frankly concerning. “I vie for your approval, I love you.” 3 days btw
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Anonymous 1d

dude my friend who’s gay and ace met another guy who’s gay and aspec and did the SAME SHIT- told him he couldnt sleep without imagining a heated blanket was his body next to him- and that he hoped they’d have sex one day… despite my friend being ace and very up front with that….

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Anonymous 1d

they probably have bipolar disorder and get a “favorite person”

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Anonymous 1d

also during our last convo the other person said it was crying because it wants distance because it got way too attached to me, which is probably a good thing 😭

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Anonymous 19h

omg on fetlife I once had a guy dm me a bunch of meme pics. I was really bored so I responded and we texted for three days total and I stopped bc he was kind of weird. a lot of the things he said were vaguely insulting so I told him to stop and then he made a lot of comments on how he couldn't be his true self. anyways it's been two years since then and he will still text saying "i hope you're doing okay" or "idk what i did". we talked for 3 days 2 years ago...

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

this is like the third time this has happened to me (meeting someone online & them getting super attached to me very quickly) and I’m not sure if this is a common experience 💀 it’s part of why I don’t like making online friends since this happens like 2/3 the time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

like every time I’m told that I’m “just a comfortable person to be around” but I don’t think I’m doing anything special. idk it’s just frustrating since whenever I click with someone online, this is the usual result. and I don’t feel ok with someone saying they’re obsessed with me less than a week into knowing them 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Favorite people are a Borderline thing, not a Bipolar thing. the other BPD.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

oh word thats what i meant

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

I said I was lying on a plushy and it said to imagine it as the plushy 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

I went back and uhh… yeah bpd and several others. I remember reading that and worrying this would be the result but didn’t want to break off based on a disorder it couldnt control. idk what the right decision would’ve been

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