How it feels to drop in, say “I simply would not care,” and leave

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It’s just the concept that the pronouns someone likes doesn’t directly correlate to what gender they feel they are, ik of masc lesbians that are comfortable with he/him pronouns but they don’t actually feel like a guy

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it’s so weird to me that people assume that pronouns = gender after YEARS of saying the opposite. i get protecting our label, but are we fr guys? 💔

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people when butch gender non conforming lesbians don’t conform to typical gender rules

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This comment section passed the vibe check. Sincerely, a nonbinary lesbian 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

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I mean there are he/him women so idrc?? if anything if they masc I lowk be biting lip

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anyone who doesn’t understand he/him lesbians or transmasc lesbians/ butches should read Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg. everyone should read it anyways

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Like I'm not gonna date them bc I like fems but genuinely it doesn't affect me or anyone. No ones making you date them so let's just let queer people be queer however they want

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it took me a while to get, so i can empathize with the confusion

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I’m a butch he/they lesbian - thanks yall <3 usually I just get scolded a lot online

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i'm a he/him lesbian and i hate when people assume shit about me or try to start arguments because of what pronouns i use like it is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL 😭

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Could not agree more.

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Does this apply to trans men identifying as lesbians as well?

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