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I’m nonbinary and very fem presenting and I’ve been talking to this guy but I think he thinks of me as just a girl but like how do I go about talking to him about it
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Anonymous 5w

I’m going to just text him this Heyyy so I meant to say this yesterday but I got nervous Could you pull back a bit on calling me things like lady or ma’am? I know you probably tell your friends and parents I’m a girl, but I’m still nonbinary, yk? Which i get but Just wanted to mention it.

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Anonymous 5w

Thoughts any thoughts on that too straightforward, not straightforward enough?

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Anonymous 5w

I think that sounds good!

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Anonymous 5w

How do you want him to refer to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I think your message is perfectly fine as long as that’s how you actually feel. If you don’t want him telling his friends/family that you’re a girl, don’t lie and say you’re cool w it

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