LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I’ll date anyone, any gender, any identity as long as there’s no penis involved. I identify as pan since I truly don’t have *gender* bias, but penis genuinely doesn’t appeal to me at all. I want to know if there’s anyone who also thinks this way.

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LGBTQIA+ 5w

I’ll date anyone, any gender, any identity as long as there’s no penis involved. I identify as pan since I truly don’t have *gender* bias, but penis genuinely doesn’t appeal to me at all. I want to know if there’s anyone who also thinks this way.

Anonymous 5w

I think pan still works, although that sounds a little stronger than just a genital preference. It might also matter whether you’re saying nope to any person with a penis, or just to the use of it

Anonymous 5w

no one irl really cares about labels that deeply. just call yourself bi or pan and if it comes up you can clarify you have a genital preference

Anonymous 4w

I'm pretty sure I saw a microlabel for that but pan w/ a gender preference works fine

Anonymous 5w

Is there a specific identity for this? Idk if pan really suits me but it’s the best I have right now.

Anonymous

#1 5w

I’m just a little confused bc you can’t separate a person from their genitalia (unless bottom surgery is involved ofc). Are you asking would I date someone with a penis but not engage in sex? Or would I date someone with a penis and engage in non-penetrative sex? Either way I would not participate in either scenario. I don’t know what that means nor why I think this way. I’m hoping to find clarity, understanding, or someone with a similar experience, I’m not trying to be prejudiced.

Anonymous

OP 5w

no, I didn’t think you were, just was trying to clarify. I haven’t personally heard a better description of that than pan

Anonymous

OP 3w

hey sorry coming back a week later: omni or poly are smaller labels under bi if that's what you're looking for