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LGBTQIA+ 21h
I think it's also interesting to frame your identity as "decentering men" rather than "centering women". I'm not sure we're ready for that conversation, so I'll just say that
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LGBTQIA+ 23h
"I'm les4les because I can't be with someone who doesn't completely decenter men" girl I LITERALLY have never had a SINGLE conversation with you where you didn't talk about men lol idc if you're les4les but we all know decentering men is not the reason
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Anonymous 19h

yeah people look at me crazy when i push back on the new non-man loving non-man definition of lesbianism as a genderqueer lesbian but like. lesbianism is about loving women. i’m not defining my lesbianism around men.

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Anonymous 21h

What does decentering mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

No I 100% agree

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