it is genuinely so exhausting being trans on dating apps. every single person who talks to me is either disgustingly sexual and fetishizing, or they somehow dont realize im trans despite it being in my profile and immediately block after realizing
It’s non-stop. I basically have “I’M TRANS! 🏳️⚧️” in neon fucking lights all over my profiles and STILL get idiots who can’t read and ask if I’m trans just to block. Then the non-stop sexualisation. I hate trying to date.