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how "progressive leftists" look at you when you tell them you're a queer person in the south
1696 upvotes, 132 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "how "progressive leftists" look at you when you tell them you're a queer person in the south"
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Anonymous 5w

This and it’s extremely fucking disrespectful to be like “you HAVE to move” okay say that to indigenous queer people in the south you ass

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Anonymous 5w

Also as much as TN can suck I LOVE where I live. The Smokies are gorgeous and the South does biscuits and fried chicken and mac and cheese best 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 5w

then they hit me with the “oh just get out of there” yeah um.. i can’t.

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Anonymous 5w

"get outta there" AND GO WHEREEE we need some blue voters in the south like please trust if we believe hard enough it can become a swing state guys please

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Anonymous 5w

they act like the south isnt a majority minorities 😭

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Anonymous 5w

Real. Like I have no where to go

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Anonymous 5w

Why do I have to move? That literally solves nothing. Fighting for change and being active in my community is a lot better than moving to a blue state with too many people and an extremely high cost of living

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Anonymous 5w

"just move away" 1. im broke 2. running away from issues does nothing to fix them, and bigotry exists EVERYWHERE, even in the bluest states

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Anonymous 5w

“Just move” No. I like living in AL. My friends and family are here and it’s a beautiful place to live.

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Anonymous 5w

Subau #12

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Anonymous 5w

The south has its fair share of problems and messy history, but it also has a lot of unique culture, beautiful nature and soul. I’d much rather live somewhere with actual history and distinct culture than “bland ass ~150ish year old Midwest white people gentrification city”. I’ve noticed a disheartening number of self proclaimed “progressives” are just virtue signaling liberals; pretentious, aloof, arrogant, and often heavily classist.

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Anonymous 5w

Queer people are gonna exist in the south no matter what, the answer isn’t to abandon it (literally impossible btw because there will always be queer children or adults coming out and queer people who cannot move or have family and friends they can’t leave behind) it’s to focus on protecting our rights federally and on the local/state level, doing our best to undo and prevent gerrymandering, and doing our best to make our southern communities more accepting. If you move out for your safety and

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Anonymous 5w

I don’t wanna leave the south but the political climate and weather climate here are so bad for my gf and I’s health :(

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Anonymous 5w

As a southern queer person, yes a lot of people can’t afford to leave and the politics suck. But also if we all leave, then the politics in the south will never change if there is no one to stand up to conservatives. I also love living in upstate of South Carolina. I love the food, the mountains, and the mild winters. Cost of living isn’t terrible and I don’t have to commute super far to work. I’ve been here since I was born and the south is my home.

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Anonymous 5w

“Just move” okay you wanna pay my first months rent and deposit on top of moving everything of mine across state lines?? No? Then SHUT UP!!! (Looking at you #12 you pretentious ass)

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Anonymous 5w

"just leave" im poor 🥺 and have nowhere else to go 🥺 and i need to get my degree 🥺 and im poor 🥺 im literally barely able to afford gas to visit home every few weeks 🥺 idk how you expect me to travel states away 🥺 much less travel and move all my stuff and get a home 🥺 you're a pretentious fuck if you tell queer southerners to just leave 🥺 and incredibly privileged 🥺

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Anonymous 5w

they always look down on you too as if I can make a time machine and tell my immigrant family to not move here 💀

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Anonymous 5w

As someone from Mass I don’t understand how other ppl in blue states continue to act like clowns and as if someone telling them they have to leave behind everything they’ve ever known wouldn’t be hard and a thing they wouldn’t want to do

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Anonymous 5w

I live in Appalachia (although admittedly currently in one of the areas of Appalachia that’s pretty queer friendly, live laugh love Augusta County) and I love this area too much to give up on fighting for equality and freedom for EVERYONE here. People who act like the south (and Appalachia) are homogenous areas that all hate all queer people are dumb as fuck

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Anonymous 4w

especially when you don’t want to move dawg like what😭😭😭

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t ya know All southerners are poor and evil and racist and homophobic and there are no things or propaganda machines that influence that

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Anonymous 5w

I mean, personally I want to move because there’s nothing for me here… heavily bigoted, shit job market for my field, and all my family moved so I have basically no one here so why stay? I don’t suggest it to anyone but it makes sense for me to leave this state.

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Anonymous 4w

Texas would be blue if not for insane gerrymandering and even then, you can only do that for so long

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Anonymous 5w

I moved to the south from the west coast and I’ve been far more welcome here than I ever felt out near the pacific, just depends on the people you CHOOSE to interact with

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Anonymous 5w

Shit like this is why even though the thought of my home, the pnw, being it’s own nation sounds great I don’t support it. I’m not willing to abandon all the queer people, all the people of color, all the women, etc. who live in the rest of the country

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Anonymous 4w

I visited a friend who went to CU boulder and her roommates were interviewing me like I was from another planet. “So… do you rock with the confederate flag?” And I was just shook

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Anonymous 1w

i love my blue state!

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Anonymous 4w

Sorry, I’ll always encourage people to move to somewhere better if they can for their own safety and well-being. If not out of the state, at least to a city or area that’s better, assuming the state has one.

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Anonymous 5w

Imagine living in West Virginia 😵‍💫

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Anonymous 5w

Red states = shitholes

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Anonymous 5w

people in this thread deserve a better, bluer hometown 💜💜💜💜💜 and i’m not a bigot, dumbass or elitist to think so.

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Anonymous 5w

i wouldn’t even set foot in a shithole red state including nevada bc they voted for trump once

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Anonymous 5w

I’ll never apologize btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

no for real this is exactly how I feel living in and being from North Carolina

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Anonymous replying to -> lucyandmozzarella 5w

Our wildlife and landscape is so beautiful I could never leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

Right??? Like we have the world’s most biodiverse salamander population in the park!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> lucyandmozzarella 5w

omfg i visited western TN this summer ive never seen that many hummingbirds in one place ❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

Try Georgia

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I run a LGBTQ+ club on my very rural college campus in wv and GOD DAMN it’s hard to keep spirits up surrounding the community. Hosting an event for national coming out day tho 😈

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

I got to a Christian college and it’s so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

The bright side is that at least you can be a safe space for people in that environment

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Upper middle class white “progressives” on their way to just act like classist snobs who prefer virtue signaling over actually fighting for change:

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Anonymous 5w

Ur mom.

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Anonymous 5w

not everyone has the choice to leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

They should figure it out.

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Anonymous 5w

you gotta have critical thinking skills man, maybe your thought was half baked. but i believe in you, still.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 5w

i stand corrected after reading your other responses, what a waste.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

I’d rather stay where I am in the south if it means avoiding selfish snobs like you. I know hard work and community engagement are probably alien concepts to you, but those are what actually solve problems, not running away from them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 5w

That’s where I’m from! I love TN and I want TN to be a place where everybody is welcome and that won’t happen if people like me leave!

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Anonymous 5w

You’re a bigot, pretentious classist

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The south is one of the most diverse areas on the country.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

i don’t engage in communities that want me dead

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

NC is a dysfunctional democracy (gerrymandered beyond recognition) and historically has only allowed civil rights after federal pressure, so unfortunately our vote here doesn’t have much power. This is coming from a politically active North Carolinian.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 5w

I hope you move💜💜Wishing you well

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

Oh please, only a small percentage of southerners want you dead, the general view of lgbt issues in the south is apathy rather than hard hostility. But please, for everyone else’s sake, don’t come visit the south; your melodramatic, pretentious nonsense wouldn’t help anyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

i’d rather die than visit your shithole states

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

Please

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

the south is the worst part of this country. it should be purged from america if you ask me

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Anonymous 5w

Generalizing entire states to shitholes and telling indigenous people to leave their rightful homes because of contemporary Anglo American politics is what makes you a pretentious bigot. If we truly live in shitholes, so be it, a shithole is better than whatever hell you clearly reside in

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

We tried that in the 1850’s it didn’t quite work out

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 5w

I mean I’m also aware of that but it doesn’t hurt to hope lol😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 5w

You can’t change shit.

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Anonymous replying to -> stayhydrated 5w

Dude has gotta be rage baiting?!?!? People aren’t actually like this right?!?

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

Stop it, you’ll upset the classist Yankees by showing that

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

It seems to be working lol

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

I hope he’s a troll 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

people don’t like being called out for being self hating queers that make excuses for places and people that hate them

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

You’re the self hating queer, you clearly have no notion of standing your ground and fighting for a better world. Keep on running from your problems, hopefully you’ll end up somewhere without internet signal so you’ll stop making a fool of yourself online

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

I’m so self hating that I surround myself with people that accept me😂righttt

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 5w

You’re one of the few good things in that state.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

White people aren’t the only bigots

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Anonymous 5w

It’s a beautiful coastal state. Hope you get to see the coast one day

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

NC is hopeless

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

Not with that attitude

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 5w

Red states suck

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 5w

Health then I wish you the best and hold no judgment and support you in your life choices, but I don’t want to hear ANYONE, especially someone who has never lived in the south, telling me I SHOULD move or that it’s a problem that I love my home state and region and want to help make it better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 5w

Thissss>>

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Anonymous 5w

Imagine being openly homophobic in an lgbtq+ page and thinking people would agree with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> stayhydrated 5w

yuck

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

I spent 4 months in Tennessee. I was also born there, and still have family there. Having token gays that you decided were palatable enough to keep around isn’t diversity. The entire 4 months I spent there I can count on 1 hand the amount on non white people id seen.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

I wouldn’t say we’re completely hopeless. We did manage to at least break the supermajority in the recent election cycle, and we got Riggs re-elected. It’s just slow and difficult progress, we get by with strong community support and mutual aid.

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Anonymous replying to -> im_eepie 5w

And they want us to leave too! As cheesy as “y’all means all” is it needs to be true and if we all leave it can’t be true

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

I mean we kind of have to for our safety, it’s really sad to be forced to leave our home state just to have basic healthcare rights. I really hope that things get better in the south, especially for those who can’t leave.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 5w

as someone originally from nc who had to move for personal reasons nobody will be upset at you for moving for your own safety or health; i just think it’s important that you don’t become one of these people whose first solution is “move away”

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

“they should figure it out” bro we often don’t have the money, we don’t have ways to get to other places, it’s not something that can magically happen for us you absolute snob

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

i think you crave validation

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

Ethnic groups don’t include sexuality. It sounds like you were only hanging out in white places 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

it is the way it is because the south doesn’t have the best governors. kindly stfu.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

Yeah I was born in the south I don’t have money to move

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

so just bc you personally don’t interact with us dont mean we dont exist 😭 also im not talking strictly about sexuality..

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

You don’t like cheerwine?????

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

You telling people to just move is in fact elitist

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Anonymous 5w

Making fun of queer people living in non queer friendly areas and flaunting your ability to get married when a lot of others /cant/ is openly homophobic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

That statement isn’t why people are calling you an elitist bigot

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 5w

Same! I live in southern Alabama and I love it! I live close to an amazing beach and have so many friends down here

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

ratio'd by the alabama flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

This is an insane way of framing that. 😭 Like yes, would I as a lady and queer person not feel comfortable/safe traveling to a red? Sadly yes…but that doesn’t mean there isn’t anything beautiful in or about places like Nevada! There are beautiful sites, compassionate non-bigots, dogs, etc. in every state. Also, by insulting the state you’re also insulting the perfectly kind non-maga folks?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 5w

Gosh, although I agree that 12 is being insane, I don’t know if I’d dismiss the idea that there aren’t a ton of folks that have actively hostile views of queer folk, but don’t necessarily want us dead. Sadly, voting to deny healthcare (including and specifically healthcare that’s proven to reduce suicide rates by astronomical degrees) doesn’t necessarily equal ‘they want us dead’ …but it absolutely *does* indicate that our welfare and us living is a mere afterthought. :(

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Anonymous 5w

you’re the problem babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Sadly, most southern states do have tons of blue voters but they gerrymander tf outta them. Texas has 8 million+ registered democrats and only 6 million+ registered republicans and somehow it’s red. At least with blue states even though they’re gerrymandered the majority are still democrat.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

It doesn’t help that voting booths are getting closed and traditionally black/hispanic areas are losing voting booths in general which makes a black or Hispanic persons vote count considerably less than a white person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

okay buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 5w

Then perish?

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 4w

as another person from mass i totally agree like i do not wanna move out of mass and i know other people obviously feel similar about places they grew up?? like i just want things to be better for everyone where they are i dont WANT them to HAVE TO LEAVE

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4w

hey man that’s super bigoted and elitist don’t you know????

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4w

1. There’s a difference between encouraging someone to move versus attacking someone for not moving. A lot of northern/western leftists celebrate when natural disasters occur in the south 2. It’s not helpful. Telling the sick person to just go to the doctor doesn’t help. They can’t afford to go. They already know that they should be going. It’s the same with queer people and POC in the south. We know we’re not safe. Ignorance isn’t what’s holding us back. 1/2

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4w

Some people don’t want to leave their families, their friends, everything they’ve ever known. Some people aren’t able to leave for one reason or another. Some people love their communities and want to fight to improve them. It’s honestly giving saviorism to just tell people to leave. Should people in war-torn countries be told to leave their ancestral homes, or should we be trying to help end the war? (2/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 4w

I guess I’m speaking from the perspective of someone who did it and doesn’t regret it, and am talking about people asking me if they should move out of the south or not. I don’t just go up to random people and tell them to move out. People just tend to ask me about it becuase I did it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4w

You’re elitist for leaving the South how dare you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #41 4w

Imo all of what you’re doing is okay then, it’s just not what the post is about

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

And you’re an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Do you have anything better to do with your life besides trolling this post?

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Anonymous replying to -> tinyflowers 4w

yes, like staying far away from red states

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

i hope u guys realize #12 is literally a maga troll...

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

No. Trump voters are scum that deserve to be sent to gitmo

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

nice try but you're literally the laziest pretend lib i've ever seen only bested by the "my mama black. my daddy black" tweet

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

i have no reason to lie abt that, if i was maga i would tell u weirdos to move to red states 😂 idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

why would you want dems to move to red states bro that makes no sense. the more dems move OUT of red states the more you get to keep the supermajority in those red states. like you are not being slick lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

cuz red states are disgusting, bigoted and unsafe shitholes. they’re better off in blue states where they won’t get killed

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

you’re not safe in your blue state with me around bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 4w

shiver me timbers 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

hmm i wonder what could cause a person to want people from a majority democratic group to move into more majority democrat areas 🤔 🤔 it cant have anything to do with wanting to concentrate all the blue into a small number of states to minimize electoral power, nooo.....

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

also lmfao ok chatgpt user 🤡

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

you're essentially saying its okay for marginalized people to be killed as long as theyre not in blue states 😬 and you want me to believe you arent a republican?

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

my bad for wanting gay people to live safely😂guess you want them hate crimed by hicks

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

like fr you are just trying to make the pnw seem like a bunch of elitist assholes by pretending to be one. nobody who lives there actually thinks ts lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

I think if anyone’s elitist assholes it’s Massachusetts

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Anonymous 4w

it means i think no. 12 is annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> #39 4w

not even close to what i said u dumb prick

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

yeah the best way to make the world safer for gay people is by making sure theres no gay people in certain places. that way gay people are only allowed to exist in the certified "gay zones" and if they get hate crimed in any of the other places they have nobody but themselves to blame! 😊 get real you sound like a clown 🤡

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