
The south has its fair share of problems and messy history, but it also has a lot of unique culture, beautiful nature and soul. I’d much rather live somewhere with actual history and distinct culture than “bland ass ~150ish year old Midwest white people gentrification city”. I’ve noticed a disheartening number of self proclaimed “progressives” are just virtue signaling liberals; pretentious, aloof, arrogant, and often heavily classist.
Queer people are gonna exist in the south no matter what, the answer isn’t to abandon it (literally impossible btw because there will always be queer children or adults coming out and queer people who cannot move or have family and friends they can’t leave behind) it’s to focus on protecting our rights federally and on the local/state level, doing our best to undo and prevent gerrymandering, and doing our best to make our southern communities more accepting. If you move out for your safety and
As a southern queer person, yes a lot of people can’t afford to leave and the politics suck. But also if we all leave, then the politics in the south will never change if there is no one to stand up to conservatives. I also love living in upstate of South Carolina. I love the food, the mountains, and the mild winters. Cost of living isn’t terrible and I don’t have to commute super far to work. I’ve been here since I was born and the south is my home.
"just leave" im poor 🥺 and have nowhere else to go 🥺 and i need to get my degree 🥺 and im poor 🥺 im literally barely able to afford gas to visit home every few weeks 🥺 idk how you expect me to travel states away 🥺 much less travel and move all my stuff and get a home 🥺 you're a pretentious fuck if you tell queer southerners to just leave 🥺 and incredibly privileged 🥺
I live in Appalachia (although admittedly currently in one of the areas of Appalachia that’s pretty queer friendly, live laugh love Augusta County) and I love this area too much to give up on fighting for equality and freedom for EVERYONE here. People who act like the south (and Appalachia) are homogenous areas that all hate all queer people are dumb as fuck
Generalizing entire states to shitholes and telling indigenous people to leave their rightful homes because of contemporary Anglo American politics is what makes you a pretentious bigot. If we truly live in shitholes, so be it, a shithole is better than whatever hell you clearly reside in
Health then I wish you the best and hold no judgment and support you in your life choices, but I don’t want to hear ANYONE, especially someone who has never lived in the south, telling me I SHOULD move or that it’s a problem that I love my home state and region and want to help make it better.
This is an insane way of framing that. 😭 Like yes, would I as a lady and queer person not feel comfortable/safe traveling to a red? Sadly yes…but that doesn’t mean there isn’t anything beautiful in or about places like Nevada! There are beautiful sites, compassionate non-bigots, dogs, etc. in every state. Also, by insulting the state you’re also insulting the perfectly kind non-maga folks?
Gosh, although I agree that 12 is being insane, I don’t know if I’d dismiss the idea that there aren’t a ton of folks that have actively hostile views of queer folk, but don’t necessarily want us dead. Sadly, voting to deny healthcare (including and specifically healthcare that’s proven to reduce suicide rates by astronomical degrees) doesn’t necessarily equal ‘they want us dead’ …but it absolutely *does* indicate that our welfare and us living is a mere afterthought. :(
Sadly, most southern states do have tons of blue voters but they gerrymander tf outta them. Texas has 8 million+ registered democrats and only 6 million+ registered republicans and somehow it’s red. At least with blue states even though they’re gerrymandered the majority are still democrat.
1. There’s a difference between encouraging someone to move versus attacking someone for not moving. A lot of northern/western leftists celebrate when natural disasters occur in the south 2. It’s not helpful. Telling the sick person to just go to the doctor doesn’t help. They can’t afford to go. They already know that they should be going. It’s the same with queer people and POC in the south. We know we’re not safe. Ignorance isn’t what’s holding us back. 1/2
Some people don’t want to leave their families, their friends, everything they’ve ever known. Some people aren’t able to leave for one reason or another. Some people love their communities and want to fight to improve them. It’s honestly giving saviorism to just tell people to leave. Should people in war-torn countries be told to leave their ancestral homes, or should we be trying to help end the war? (2/2)
I guess I’m speaking from the perspective of someone who did it and doesn’t regret it, and am talking about people asking me if they should move out of the south or not. I don’t just go up to random people and tell them to move out. People just tend to ask me about it becuase I did it.
yeah the best way to make the world safer for gay people is by making sure theres no gay people in certain places. that way gay people are only allowed to exist in the certified "gay zones" and if they get hate crimed in any of the other places they have nobody but themselves to blame! 😊 get real you sound like a clown 🤡