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LGBTQIA+ 18w
Do bi people have some degree of privilege within the queer community yes? Do they still experience bi erasure and biphobia? Yes. Both can be true. Can we move on please?
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Anonymous 18w
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Anonymous 18w

this is all us bi ppl have been trying to say this whole time fr 😭

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Anonymous 18w

Also some of us don’t have that degree of privilege lol. I feel like I’ve experienced just as much homophobia as any gay person has. People don’t know care or believe that I like women

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Anonymous 18w

The only possible privilege I can think of is that of being straight passing/in a straight passing relationship, but I got nothing else

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Anonymous 18w

I think you would benefit with some better syntax and punctuation🫶 hope this helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18w

wow

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Anonymous 18w

we have trouble forgetting that men are bisexual it seems

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Anonymous 18w

why are u bringing this up this is so far from the point

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Anonymous 18w

A bi person dating someone that they are attracted to 😱 a bi woman dating a man 😱 how horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 18w

I used the verb bring not the verb date

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

You also used the word “boyfriend”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

We are talking about bi women bi men is a whole nothing can of worms

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

Who’s we?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18w

my gf and I are both trans and bi and yea, we don’t really pass as straight so some of us don’t have that degree of privilege

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

So bi girls aren’t allowed to take the partner that they love anywhere? Unless it’s a girl? In which case they’ll be told they’re actually a lesbian because “why would anyone like a man”

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 18w

They just shouldn’t be surprised people can’t tell they’re not straight is all I’ve ever advocated for

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

Under a comment about how wanting to be viewed as apart of the community they are actually a part of. Which heavily implies you don’t believe they are a valid part of the community

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 18w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18w

Op only said bi people so…

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 18w

this is completely grammatically correct

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 18w

Lmao mama I messed up like one word 😭

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