LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I’m currently starting to get back to dating. I’m talking to a few guys, and one of them happens to be trans. I’m not official with anyone because we haven’t even gone on dates. Is that okay? Or is that considered a fetish? (Idc as long as ur a man)

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I’m currently starting to get back to dating. I’m talking to a few guys, and one of them happens to be trans. I’m not official with anyone because we haven’t even gone on dates. Is that okay? Or is that considered a fetish? (Idc as long as ur a man)

Anonymous 23h

As long as you aren’t actively seeking out trans people for fetish or chaser purposes, yea it’s fine to date trans people. I don’t get why people think that every single time a cis person dates a trans person it’s a fetish thing. Trans people are people and can date cis or other trans people

Anonymous 21h

that's how i am and im a trans man. it genuinely does not matter as long as you aren't trying to detrans him or just see him as a tomboy fetish

Anonymous 17h

Y'all be so worried about maximising your “wokeness” or progressivism… be free and live your life

Anonymous

#2 21h

Oh no I’m not doing that

Anonymous

#1 21h

I js wanna make sure he’s comfortable, I don’t have any fetishes or kinks, a man is a man to me 😭