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I hate this joke so much. I’ve only ever heard privileged Americans make this joke. As someone who grew up gay in a country where homosexuality was criminalized, it’s so shitty being used as a punch line.
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Anonymous 1w

Like, you have never had to live with that fear. Stop trying to claim trauma that was never yours to begin with.

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Anonymous 1w

literally. it's so insensitive and not even funny to begin with

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Anonymous 1w

It’s corny and insensitive

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Anonymous 1w

Alot of queer people havent progressed past high school humor but we arent ready for that conversation

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Anonymous 1w

I’m just concerned with the amount of likes🫤

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Anonymous 1w

On the flip side of this, it’s great unironically when it’s not just used as a comical punchline. It brings attention the fact that I’m not allowed to exist in 72 countries without being a criminal for existing. Let’s /not/ stop talking about this. No one’s trying to claim trauma that isn’t there’s. I’m a criminal in 72 countries for existing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yeah that’s true too. I want out of the US for a multitude of reasons and I have to think about where I could go and live with basic rights. Can’t go a lot of places cause I’m black, and can’t go a lot of other places because I’m gay. We’re allowed to be upset by those facts as well

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