it happens literally every pride month too, like us lesbians cannot get a break. barely any trans men identify that way anyway AND we have other things to be ACTUALLY worried about!

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i feel like this specific discourse has so much to do with how trans men are not taken seriously in queer spaces simply because they’re men. the phenomenon where people seemingly equate trans men to cis men, and act like our experience with being a man should not be allowed to coincide with our inherent connection to femininity and feminine labels, despite growing up being perceived that way. They act as if that can’t affect our current perception of our identities post transition at ALL

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the he/him lesbian discourse too like i really dont give a fuck let ppl do what they want

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Saw a tiktok where this lesbian basically said “you don’t care about pronouns that much when it’s a she/her man. You know gay men that are she/her, why does it matter if a lesbian uses he/him”

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