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I do think there are gay men that are misogynistic but I’m starting to see that being used as a way to be homophobic while shielding yourself from criticism
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Anonymous 7w

See also: the use of the “white” modifier in “white women” to just be unabashedly misogynistic

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Anonymous 7w

I have also noticed that, and I say this as a bi woman

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Anonymous 7w

They blocked me so I can’t see what they said 😭

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Anonymous 7w

Umm. No. Sexist gay men are sexist and that is NEVER okay. Sexism should be called out ALWAYS. No matter what man is doing it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

A lot of lesbians also love to throw misogyny around any time someone calls them homophobic or transphobic just a cycle of everyone trying to weaponize oppression instead of deconstructing their own biases

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Sexism is not “being thrown around” it is probably the most rampant form of discrimination on the planet. That is called reality. And there IS a ton of sexism and lesbophobia among trans people towards lesbians. Sounds like YOU are just a sexist gay man and trying to dismiss sexism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Exactly! People just want an excuse to hate women. (Like OP) It’s disgusting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

OP didn’t say we shouldn’t call out sexism, just that there’s no need to be homophobic while doing so

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I have genuinely never seen lesbophobia among trans ppl except my evil delusional ex

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

“Umm. No. There isn’t any nuance to this situation” ok dude 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No he is basically saying that it’s okay for gay men to be sexist and they should not be called out for it. Obviously nobody here is homophobic but if you’re being sexist, then you deserve to be called out. I don’t want to hear any bitching from a man about being discriminated against when he is being called out for discriminating against women. No. That’s not how it works. He deserves to be called out for it. Can’t handle the boomerang coming back at you, don’t throw it at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

So you’re clearly a troll and getting blocked

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