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I don’t think “ally” is a very descriptive word when people apply it to themselves. Too many people claim that they are a safe person to be around, but really don’t deliver because they mistakenly believe that they have become free of all prior biases
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Anonymous 2w

As if they don’t have more to learn. And when you tell them that they still have stuff to unpack, they get defensive and dismissive. This is a post about all types of marginalization.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I think it is probably more helpful for people to think of allyship as something that is aspirational rather than something you can just decide is a fact about yourself.

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