Be upfront about it, honestly, and don’t sit with this for too long. I promise it will be worse for you both if you wait

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Something similar happened with my last partner, it sucked but eventually I just met them and told them straight up and I felt such a weight lifted

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This is kind of a tragedy that’s common for young people still figuring themselves out. I guess you have to map out that conversation with the goals of redefining your relationship and reassuring him that it’s not his fault. Figure out if you wanna still be close friends or even roommates after this depending on where y’all are now. He might need some space to process but if he’s a good man he’ll eventually accept you.

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