Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
LGBTQIA+ icon
LGBTQIA+ 1d
I let my dad know my mom has cancer and a week later he decided to call me to ask 1. "if her cancer was caused by the covid vaccine?" 2. "a mastectomy is unnecessary she should just do chemo" dumbest man I've ever met, thank god they're divorced
comment

20
upvote 655 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 22h

No it’s insane what people say to you in relation to ailments. Someone told me my cancer was probably caused by my microwave use. Smile and nod, just smile and nod

upvote 169 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 21h

Caring more about her boobs than her life is disgusting

upvote 122 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 22h

A cause for no contact

upvote 69 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 15h

wishing your mom a quick and smooth remission and recovery ❤️

upvote 19 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14h

Chemo literally destroys people. That second statement to me is just so insane.

upvote 18 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 14h

sharon stone’s ex husband left her bc she elected to have a bilateral mastectomy in the event her breast tumors were cancer.

upvote 11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 13h

This is not on topic

upvote -5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

I wish, but I have a little brother and he's not old enough for a phone or anything yet but one day

upvote 47 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I think it's more of a not believing in medicine or not believing me about how serious it is. they haven't seen each other in like a decade either, so idk what's going through his head gross either way though

upvote 70 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 15h

awww thank you!! thankfully she's only stage 1 and she's having her surgery right now. so while scary it was definitely best case scenario all things considered

upvote 14 downvote
🛠️
Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Stage 2a for me - simple lumpectomy with 35 reds because my “Onco score” was low! Hoping the same for ur mom… 10 years cancer free this month! Yippee! Just be there. Period. Flowers are nice

upvote 18 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> listenksu 13h

my mom had stage 2 when i was a kid! she’s doing well now :) she preferred potted plants, she liked that they stayed alive

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #9 12h

good to know queers can’t get cancer now ig

upvote 7 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

Thats such a reach

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

thank you all for sharing. my mom has survived three separate forms of breast cancer. she kept a potted plant she originally gifted her terminally ill father in our home for over twenty-five years!

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #9 7h

let’s be supportive and not critical of the person whose mom has cancer

upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #11 7h

My mom also has cancer lol

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #9 7h

Then you’d figure you’d be a little more empathetic no? Does it really matter whether or not it’s “on topic”??

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

Meow

upvote -3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #9 3h

LGBT spaces aren’t just for talking about being gay… these are historically non judgemental safe spaces. This person was sharing something vulnerable and they should have the right to do. Next time just scroll past, not saying anything is free

upvote 9 downvote