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LGBTQIA+ 6d
some of yall on here are so chronically online its just kinda sad
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Anonymous 6d

tbh I’m pretty sure the reason you’re getting downvoted is because the implication is extremely vague. “you people spend too much time online” tells us nothing about what your actual frustration is, that leaves a lot of room for misinterpretation

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Anonymous 6d

fair point #1, this is specifically for folks who hate on others because of their identity

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Anonymous 6d

your right having he/him pronouns doesn’t make you a lesbian. just like having she/her pronouns doesn’t either. pronouns and sexuality are different things and arnt related. glad we could reach that understanding

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Anonymous 6d

yeah that is how it works. and im allowed to tell you that youre a dumbass who doesn’t understand lesbian history nor the difference between pronouns and gender

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Anonymous 6d

You are allowed to put your own idiocy on full display yes #2

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Anonymous 6d

number two you can fuck right off my post

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Anonymous 6d

reading an out of context quote ≠ reading and understanding an academic and scholarly text

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Anonymous 6d

this being downvoted is kinda proving my point ngl

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Anonymous 6d

yes because what the fuck is a he/him lesbian😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

downvote me all ya want but i genuinely just don’t believe in it🤷‍♀️if you go by he/him you’re not a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

public posts allow for public comments that’s kinda how it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

that’s not “chronically online” lmao, Judith Butler was out here writing widely-read academic theory about this kind of thing back in like 1990

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

OP is allowed to tell you to fuck off when you publicly comment some goofy shit, that’s kinda how it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Butler wrote that nobody can be a gender before doing gendered acts imo calling yourself he/him is indeed a gender act just like how calling myself she/hers is a gender act

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

doesn’t mean i have to listen if it’s public goofy🤣🤣they’re allowed just like im allowed to be here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

you really just googled “Judith Butler quotes” in an attempt to feign familiarity with their work 💀 considering that they’re a lesbian who uses they/them pronouns, your misinterpretation of this fragment doesn’t have a leg to stand on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

but even more than that, your refusal to take other people’s self-described gender at face value kinda just renders the rest of your perspective on queer issues in general as questionable at best

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

how doesn’t it help? it’s what they wrote i looked it up to familiarize myself because im not old i wasn’t born back then 🤣🤣but if its something they literally wrote word for word about gendered acts and i said IMO how’s its wrong? dummy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️he/him does not make you a lesbian that’s going to keep allowing cis guys to continue laughing saying they’re lesbians cause they’re he/hims who like women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

nope but i am a lesbian because i am a she/her who also likes she/hers which doesn’t work with he/hims

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

you're wrong because theory is written to convey meaning and your misinterpretation misses the meaning of that line entirely lol. you're just trying to force a conclusion with zero functional context because you want to "win" an argument. it's also really sad that you think only old people would have reason to be familiar with highly influential queer theory-is that why you sound like you're in high school? refusal to engage with any writing older than you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

blaming actual lesbians for the behavior of lesbophobic cis men is deranged

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

okay if i’m missing the meaning tell me how can you be he/him and be considered a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

fortunately I don’t have to listen to any more of your juvenile remarks ✌️ blocked

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