it is tho & just because you might be content & confident in the way you identify it doesn’t mean you can invalidate other people‘s experiences

17

Hey it is complicated for people especially when you’re first figuring yourself out. Calling it attention seeking is reductive

13

Why are you so mad over a one-sentence post. You can't step inside another person's mind. It just sounds like you're miserable and you wanna make others miserable too...

8

if it’s not complicated tell me why I have been trying to figure out my sexuality since I was 9 years old I identified as bi 1st bc I was in denial of being a lesbian & for the past 6-8 years of my life since my sophomore year of high school Ive identified as lesbian & only have sexual experiences with women but still have been trying to figure out if I like men or I just find them physically attractive

6

like literally I’ve only ever done anything with two men the first time this guy just fucked me and we didn’t even kiss and so I wasn’t happy or impressed because he wasn’t good in bed but then I hu with a trusted friend of mine & kissing him wasn’t all that bad & he’s a great eater but Im still unsure about penetration bc he was kinda small & I didn’t have a toy

8

& I still prefer women afterwards

6

Comment Deleted

0

so yes genius tell me how it’s not complicated because Id really love to know

10

By your responses I’m willing to bet that you’re just a straight white man with a small dick intruding on queer spaces please leave

8

Not everyone can understand things at a “normal” pace. There are genuine reasons people struggle with figuring out their identity or even basic addition and subtraction. The issue is belittling these issues and victimizing the person for not figuring it out when it’s usually shameful to be open about these struggles.

15

There’s literally no reason to be acting like this. You’re not more gay or better for knowing who you are faster than the next person. If you can’t understand how other ppls lives differ from yours then you’re dense

10