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I don’t know if this is the right place for this, sorry, but being trans and not being able to transition due to my future career, life goals, looks, etc is actually really fucking painful to live with and I don’t know how to cope with it anymore. (Ftm)
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Anonymous 3w

what is your future career? i’m a trans guy and have had some reservations about my career as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Film and tv acting is the goal. I’m 5’2, it’s my biggest insecurity, my fat and muscle distribution is so fem cause of my height, my face is incredibly fem, and I’ve already been rejected for roles due to my height (wack). I couldn’t imagine ever ‘making it’ in any way if I transitioned. Plan b/current is being a budtender for my fams business but if I transitioned I rlly think they’d disown me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i have a friend who’s kinda in the same boat actually. they’re non-binary and an actor but they’re main job rn is as a budtender. maybe see if you can find some queer productions looking for queer actors? i don’t have any experience in acting or theater but i know a lot of smaller companies are pushing for more queer productions. i will say if you choose to medically transition there is a high likelihood that your body’s distribution will change and your face will masculinize.

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